mmiller5373 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Started dating Katie in early March. Things were really good the first two weeks. Then she started asking me questions about some of the other women in my life (friends and coworkers I hang out with). She said she felt like there was something going on with me and some of them. I told her no, because there isn't anything. Since then, there has been trouble. She has been really flaky with me, even though she tells me she likes me a lot and sees this relationship getting serious. Last weekend we were at a bar and she told me she was bringing her two guy friends home and then she was going home. An hour later, I spotted her at another bar with the same two guys. I confronted her about it and she said nothing was going on, that they decided to stay out a little longer. Next night, she was supposed to come over, but I never heard from her. Next day, she comes over and shows me that her phone is broken and that's why she couldn't get in touch with me. The past few days, she has cancelled plans with me several times and been flaky as HELL. I finally told her on Thursday that we are done and I can't take this anymore. She texted me a few times saying that she still wants to be with me. I haven't responded. I feel like there is someone else in her life that she isn't telling me about. She says there isn't and that the men are just friends. I wanted to get some of your thoughts about this to see what you all think.
Gaeta Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Abort this right now and move on. You've been dating 1 month total and already the trust is gone on both side. 1
Author mmiller5373 Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 Like I said, I told her this isn't what I want and that it's best to end this.
spiderowl Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Then she started asking me questions about some of the other women in my life (friends and coworkers I hang out with). She said she felt like there was something going on with me and some of them. I feel like there is someone else in her life that she isn't telling me about. She says there isn't and that the men are just friends. I have a theory that people who are very suspicious about other relationships, despite there being nothing to suggest anything untoward is going on, are asking because 'they' are cheating/likely to cheat. They know they can't be trusted so why should they trust you? If you feel something else is going on, it probably is. It might not be an affair with another guy, but could simply be that she is putting her friends first all the time. Either way, she's not making you a priority so you are better off without her.
Author mmiller5373 Posted April 12, 2015 Author Posted April 12, 2015 Not sure why things all of a sudden changed about two weeks ago. Just makes me feel like somebody came into her life recently.
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