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Feeling Like I Am Unable to Meet Potential Dates


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I am a fairly content junior on a small college campus. Despite generally feeling happy about my social life and the people I surround myself, I feel very frustrated with my romantic life (or lack thereof). Even though I have several female friends, our friendship is well-entrenched and defined - which I have no problem with. But I feel like I am completely unable to meet new love-interests, which is really frustrating to me as I am my way to go through college with only one semi-serious relationship, which ended two years ago.

 

Do you have any suggestions for someone in college who is not particularly outgoing and does not go to many parties yet feels quite comfortable with one-on-ones or as a part of a small group to meet potential dates?

 

I was thinking to try to re-initiate contact with a couple of female friends I've lost contact with, hoping that something will develop. Yet, this approach makes me slightly uneased as it would involve texting/Facebook-messaging someone out-of-the-blue asking them to meet up or do whatever. Suggestions from Loveshack-nation?

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It is easier to meet dates in college then at any other time in your life.

 

 

Ask someone to study with you. Join a club or group on campus that does something you care about. There you should be able to interact with people who share your interests.

 

 

Learn to smile at people & say hello. It's scary at first but doing so will help you in the long run.

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