Alan_17 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 we have been broke up for 3 months and i last seen her 2 weeks ago with someone else. i have tried everything to move on..... ive joined clubs, going to every event possible literally tried so much stuff, all my friends are sick and tired of hearing the same story. when i go out there is no woman better than my ex, i just want her back so badly and i dont know what to do. i want to text her friends and ask if my ex is happy. all that is on my mind is her, i cant concentrate on nothing
seminoles84 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 (edited) Have you tried therapy? Also I was still struggling at 3 months. Mostly because I kept in LC. You know the little things like seeing FB status's and all that set me back and could be doing the same to you? Edited April 11, 2015 by seminoles84
Author Alan_17 Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 ive cut of all contact, and its just my curiosity that is killing me, i just want her back so badly and dont know what to do.............. ive been out with other women but nothing is the same!
Inlovewithabrit Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I feel your pain. I am sorry to hear that. I just broke up with my ex and its killing me, he wants to stay friends. but I dunno its too painful. Hang in there!
Meli22 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 3 months is no time at all really.. don't worry about feeling stuck, it will pass soon
ZiggyZoo Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Three months isn't all that long, in the bigger scheme of things. I'd suggest laying off the dating and trying so hard to be over her. It will just make you think about her more, and draw your mind to what was so great about her, and what you miss so much. Just allow yourself to be upset and don't feel badly for not being as far along as you'd like to be. Keep posting here, if you feel your friends IRL are sick of hearing about it. You'll get there, sometimes it takes a little bit longer than we'd like it too though.
Author Alan_17 Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 thank you all, im just really unproductive and what kills me is the fact that i want to know if she is happy or not.
Seeker12 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Trust me you dont mate, how long has it been since your break up, or have you been NC ever since break up? I broke up probably 7 months ago, but have been NC for the past 3/4months, but days are alot better, less thinking and everything, only way thats happening is because of zero knowledge of my ex.
Author Alan_17 Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 thing is i crave nothing more than to have her back!
geronimo Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 I feel you bro, I still want my ex back, even though deep down I know I deserve alot better than her and what she did to me was wrong. Trust me though 3 months is nothing, i'm almost coming to 5 months since the breakup and NC, but it gets better. The less you know the better it is. I remember when I used to check up on her and find things about her good or bad, it would hurt me alot and thats all i would think about for the next couple days. I found out my ex started dating someone within weeks of us breaking up. I dont know if its GIGS/Rebound or whatever the f*ck. All i know is it sucks when you treat someone like a princess and they just leave you and a 5 year relationship for some guy that shows some interest. Just keep your head up buddy, focus on yourself, forget her for now. Work on yourself, keep in NC and move on. If she ever does come back you'll be able to make rational decision instead of one based on emotions.
Author Alan_17 Posted April 12, 2015 Author Posted April 12, 2015 thats exactly what im scared of, if she does come back deep inside i know that i should never except her back but my heart would say otherwise, or maybe play the game knowing the risks allows one to be able to save himself from getting hurt.
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