Inlovewithabrit Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I miss him everyday and think about him and think what he is doing. He told me he is miserable but I don't believe him, how can he just break up with someone he once told me he could never let me go. I just keep asking WHY?! but I know I can never get the right answer. Im trying to move on and pre occupy my time, but its difficult. How do you guys cope with a break up? I k now it has only been seven months and we planned on meeting this summer. But we used to Skype all the time and I thought we were connected. but I was so wrong. im just hurting so badly inside. I want it to stop. I just needed to vent. Thanks to whoever listens.
Marco Valerio Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Hi friend: There's no a magic wand, but there's some things that you can do to help you carry on with your life and cope with the pain you're feeling. To start with, go NC, no matter what, keep always NC. Another thing that can help you is writing what you're feeling, what this experience has taught you. Spend quality time with yourself, don't be afraid of being alone. Also spend time with good friends and family. Remember, the good thing about all these, is that it's teaching you good lessons, learn from them, for the future. A big hug my friend.
Author Inlovewithabrit Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 Thank you so much for your kind words. I am trying to stay in NC with him, but he wants to be friends and I want him back but I know deep in my heart I cant because he is a different person to me as well. Its just old memories that I am hanging onto that I wish I can let go.
Ruby65 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Long distance is so hard to pull off! I've been there and feel your pain. You're right not to settle for "just friends." There's no benefit in it for you -- it only makes it easier for him to move on, while making it harder on you. Go ahead and block him on every app and site you use -- for now, for as long as it takes you to be farther along in your healing. It'll help you. Here's a guide that will help you with coping: http://www.breakuprecoveryguide.com
Author Inlovewithabrit Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 Thank you so much Ruby for your kind words, that made me feel a lot better. I just need to buckle down and do a total NC, and just focus on myself and start doing what I need to do. One day hopefully I will get that person that loves me for me no matter what. I just hope he realizes one day that what we had was special and he will never find a girl like me.
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