RoseHeart Posted April 11, 2015 Share Posted April 11, 2015 (edited) Long story short, I blocked him Tuesday morning from Whatsapp because I realized me and him were going absolutely nowhere. Typical story of he can't commit because of this and that and that he's never had a girlfriend and doesn't know if he is ready blah blah blah you know the drill. I was willing to be friends with him because he had a really intense talk with me and persuaded that I stay and not give up on him and things were going great for a while but then I just realized one day that I am wasting my time wishing for something that might not even happen and he just has a lot of issues right now that I cannot help him with. It is draining me inside and out and that is why I pulled the plug. We had a great few months but I suppose after a certain amount of time it's just normal to want more and he couldn't give me that. Fast forward now 4 days later(today) and he texted me. His message was "Hey Did something happen to your phone? ...". I decided that I'll just use this as a opportunity to tell him where I am at so I told him I'm moving on because I don't know where my place is in his life and that I don't know where we are heading. He replied saying "It was never my intention to hurt you. I try to be honest with you and don't always know how to act but if you really feel that it is too difficult to see me then I understand". I then replied again saying I have to move on and that I wish him the best and may his studies be a success. His final message then was "Okay I understand, I also wish you everything of the best and I know you'll do great in your studies this year xxx" I know I'll miss him a lot. I guess I might even go through times when I'll regret my decision to end things but I suppose it is for the best. I'm hurting a lot all over again and my body is physically in pain because of this stress. I am sad to have ended things but what is the point in just waiting around you know? I hope I made the right choice in letting go. I'm just relieved I got a chance to explain myself and that we both know where we stand. It just still sucks a lot. Edited April 11, 2015 by RoseHeart 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Marco Valerio Posted April 11, 2015 Share Posted April 11, 2015 Hi friend: Two things clear, it was his choice not having you in his life, don't make excuses for him. And second, you are doing the right thing, he's looking for his own good, people become selfish in this situations, you have to look for yourself, keep NC, avoid any contact from his side. You can do it, be brave, you are doing what's best for you. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Frank13 Posted April 11, 2015 Share Posted April 11, 2015 Look how little he tried to fight you when it was over. You absolutely did the right thing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted April 11, 2015 Share Posted April 11, 2015 You did the right thing but I know it hurts. If someone is not there for you and things are not developing as you need, then you NEED to move on. It is just dispiriting to hang around hoping for more, when there is some guy out there that would see you as precious. xx 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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