what traits do you prize in a woman?

[DivorcedDad123]

"a man isn't going to tell her that he loves her boobs, her ass, etc."

 

I do.

And,sweet and caring bring on a whole new meaning when you've lived with a b**** for years. It goes a long way. It's easier for those of us who've been married or in long relationships and gotten out. We know exactly what we DON'T want.

[fitnessfan365]

I really like a woman that can mentally stimulate me. Not just with great conversation and direct communication, but also with banter and flirtation. A woman that is comfortable enough with her sexuality, to let her guard down, be feminine, and be playful.

 

I've been finding that more and more women who love confident/sexually assertive men expect him to act asexual and neutered outside the bedroom. If you're unable to be playful and have sexual tension with someone, there is no real chemistry IMO.

 

I also like a great sense of humor, genuine thoughtfulness, loyalty, and above all else, INTEGRITY. A woman that acts as if.

[Vercetti]

No head up ass with Facebook / social networking / smart phone.

 

Classy, no spring break stupidity or club hopping mentality.

 

Creative, can honestly construct some type of art with desire for improvement.

 

Reads, not 50 shades of grey / Harry potter / Lord of the rings.

 

Apolitical, all the reading and creativity amounts to nothing if spinning in that crap.

 

Conservative, deals with money realistic and doesn't have issue I was born a man and her a woman.

 

Feminine, girls covered in tattoos headbanging to metal music...no thanks.

 

Passive, I like teamwork and a advisor that has my / our back. A devils advocate for no good reason can piss off.

 

Intergity, need to know a person has boundary and will not drift with random associations.

 

Anyhow those are my turn on / offs. It's all under the hood with no need to ask. People are people and the above things can not be faked. Looks might be why asked someone out, only was doing best to filter out as many things above...why waste her and my time. Really look like fell out the inked show with a tinkerbell shirt nose stuck in a smart phone with a red / blue bumper sticker on car ITS NOT GONNA WORK.

[gaius]

I can bowl people over sometimes and be very aggressive, so being able to stand up to me is paramount. To not hold it against me when I don't pretend to agree with everything she says. And to be loyal, to me at least. Value me above all others and show it. She can screw over whoever else she wants.

 

I don't need nuturing either. I tried telling someone about some bad stuff the other day and it didn't make me feel one bit better. Even though she was wonderful, caring and sympathetic. Just a big waste of time.

[wb1988]

What traits do you prize?

 

Face, ass and titties. Am I right guys