bluesgurl1209 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 I have been in a relationship with my bf for 6 months. Our relationship is perfect except for the fact that he doesn't want to get married. He has told me that he will never say never. I very much want to get married and have kids. He said if kids happen they happen, but he won't try for them. I am already in love with him, but am I wasting my time??? I don't want to loose him, but I don't want to give up my dreams of having a family either. Men, what is your advise?
Marshbear Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 I think your wasting your time. Move on with someone who wants what you want....
d'Arthez Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Yes, you are probably wasting your time. Don't think that he will naturally change as time progresses. If a man says he does not want to get married, he does not want to get married. Maybe he has reasons why he does not want to get married, though. And the same thing is true for children. Better for you to end this relationship now, and explain to him that you are on the same page in so many ways, but not with regards to the children / marriage issues. That is better than pressurize him into marriage or children, as he will get resentful for trapping him.
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