Tayla Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Tonight I was thinking about some of my dates or past BF's. And it dawned on me that a few of them had some either odd or even somewhat creepy statements that left me unsettled. One Guy who for the most part was extremely laid back, was a true california classy guy with time and a good lifestyle ....When or if we got intimate...He somehow creeped me out...He'd say " Here little girl...come (insert weird act) ....and then he'd pet my head like I was a dog....( I was sure that at some point he was gonna toss a biscuit my way! ) (jk!). He reminded me of an Old man trying to lure a pre school kid with candy or something.....It really was creepy weird. It was not role playing.....Trust me I know how that is usually consensual...this was non consensual on my part and I one day asked him to not treat me in such fashion during our affection time. We broke up the following week and I didn't even get a biscuit! dern nabbit~! Another guy had a quirk that he begged that I keep the bathroom door open so he could hear my bathroom sounds? (WTH!) even writing this has me laughing! What was that guy thinking! Rather an odd way to leave a lasting impression! So can any of you recall moments or certain statements that seemed to ruin the romance? Do tell. ....Moments happen and I simply wish to read your stories...
Jessie1231 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I had a few dates with a guy who did the "good girl" thing. And it was when we weren't even being intimate. We had kissed some and then he said "good girl," sort of like he was talking to a dog. So all I could think about was how much creepier it would be if we were intimate and he started that. I had to end things because I was so turned off by it. Another guy I dated had the bathroom thing too. He always wanted to be in the bathroom when I peed. We had been together for a while, so I got used to it. But it escalated into him asking me to pee on him, but I could never bring myself to do it.
contact1 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 What is it with people wanting to have pee or feces placed on them, I mean comon! 1
Jessie1231 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 What is it with people wanting to have pee or feces placed on them, I mean comon! I had heard of it but never experienced it, but for some reason three guys I have dated in the past year or so have all asked me to pee on them. I couldn't do it. For one I have trouble peeing if anyone can even hear me, so doing it with someone right there seems impossible. And then the idea of clean up makes it seem like way more trouble than it's worth.
Author Tayla Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 What is it with people wanting to have pee or feces placed on them, I mean comon! I think they take the phrase" being Cra**ed" on Seriously! Thanks Jessie for your statements, not that its pleasant to be the object of someone elses quirks, it still somehow makes it easier to understand it happens to others and somehow we move on ....
Author Tayla Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 I had heard of it but never experienced it, but for some reason three guys I have dated in the past year or so have all asked me to pee on them. I couldn't do it. For one I have trouble peeing if anyone can even hear me, so doing it with someone right there seems impossible. And then the idea of clean up makes it seem like way more trouble than it's worth. I'm truly not laughing at you, I am just finding it hysterical that it can happen to you three times! Geesh that is some hard luck...you should play the lottery , you might get a winner! How did you respond to these guys? What did you say...to get them to understand its not your thang?
Jessie1231 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I'm truly not laughing at you, I am just finding it hysterical that it can happen to you three times! Geesh that is some hard luck...you should play the lottery , you might get a winner! How did you respond to these guys? What did you say...to get them to understand its not your thang? One I was just seeing casually and he only mentioned it once. I told him I didn't think I would be able to do it but would try, but then he never brought it up again thank goodness. The other two guys were my boyfriends so I didn't want to make them feel weird about asking and I agreed to it. Then I just managed to put it off when they would bring it up. I probably should have said it just wasn't my thing, but thankfully it seemed to be something they weren't totally into and didn't bring it up often. I did notice that the thing they all had in common was that they were in sort of powerful jobs. I was thinking that maybe since they were in control all the time that the idea of being degraded gave them a thrill?
Author Tayla Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 hmmm...never really thought of that being a possiblity, you could be right! My one california guy was very much in an empowering career and may well have carried it over to the bedroom....in a peculiar way. Thank goodness you delayed that episode from escalating.....I have problems giving a sample at my doctors office and that is for Medical concerns!
gaius Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I've got the urge to pee on someone in the shower before, kind of like a dog marking his territory, though not in a submissive over the head way. Just on her leg or something. And I wouldn't object if she did it to me too. Something very primal about it, and it's actually a pretty tame exchange of body fluids all thing considered. Compared to some of the more normal things everyone does without thinking about it. I don't have any really bizarre stories to share but it always seems like the more feminist a woman is outside the bedroom, the more dominated she wants to be inside.
jen1447 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 The pee thing's not unusual, both hearing you tinkle and wanting to get the in-person treatment. I'm not a psychologist by any stretch so no real idea why, but I imagine it's something fairly primal and deeply ingrained in the psyche. Not a big deal to me to accommodate. On ruining the romance, I had a guy once several years ago who was flexing behind me (like literally the biceps pose) and looking at himself in the mirror and congratulating himself verbally. I wouldn't say I was creeped out but I realized I was with a man-child and not an actual man, so I called an immediate hiatus and had him kindly pick up all his things and go. He wasn't happy, but there was just no going forward from there. We didn't have a future of 5 minutes, let alone enough time for him to avoid going home blue balled. 1
Robert Z Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I awoke to my neighbor, with whom I had just slept, climbing out the bedroom window. So I asked what she was doing. Ricardo is home! So what? Why do you care if your brother is home? He's not my brother You mean the biker guy, right? Yeah Oh SHT! She only spoke Spanish but that was the gist of it. I spent the next several hours hoping Ricardo didn't come through my door with a gun. But she was gorgeous so it was worth it. The real joke is that I had already been dating her for about a month. All that time she claimed to live with her brother.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I once had a woman ask me a what I thought was normal for her tit, Bite her nipple after eating her out, happily I obliged and her nipple I bit, Except she told me to keep going, and keep going, until I was seriously worried, About biting THROUGH her nipple...then stopped and asked WTF very hurried. I couldn't bite any harder, I didn't know what to say, So there we sat in my bed, didn't even get to the lay. Finally I told her I like experimenting, but I'm not gonna bite her nipple off, So she got dressed, we made out a bit, then fell asleep as I went soft.
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