snipit3172 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 my ex broke up with me last september and for a while i tried e mailing him but with no reply i had done 4 weeks of no contact up until last saturday well i went out with friends and got really drunk. and e mailed him but did not remember till sunday that i had done this so i sent another e mail apologizing later that night he e mailed me and asked if i wanted a chat i told him i was busy but could talk another time ( cos did not want him to think i was desperate to talk to him even tho i was well tonight i come home from work and he has emailed me just saying hi i ahve not trplied cos he had gone off line by the time i read it does anyone have any advice as wether i should reply next time just so you know i still love him to bits and why now after all this time is he replying thanks in advance for any advice
agnf666 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Since time has went by he maybe thinking about you too. Enought to start to contact u agian. Just be friendly it won't hurt anything. You can email him back when you want. You obviously want to talk to him so go for it. He has put the ball back into your court. Go with the flow! Good Luck!
Author snipit3172 Posted April 17, 2005 Author Posted April 17, 2005 cheers thanks for that he e mailed me again but by time i got to computer he had logged off hope he gets in touch again but im not pinning my hopes on anything
agnf666 Posted April 18, 2005 Posted April 18, 2005 Hopefully you will get to catch him online. Aleast your ex has sense enough to try to contact. You my ex is trying to get my best friend to convince me to call him. I won't. So, just go with the flow. Good Luck!
Author snipit3172 Posted May 9, 2005 Author Posted May 9, 2005 well he contacted me by e mail and we just chatted for a few weeks about normal stuff then a week ago after emailing for an hour he asked if he could come up to sort things out well he came up and we stayed up till 730 in morning talking about what happened when we broke up he said no one as ever lloved him like i did not even his family ( he wsa in childrens homes as a child) and that scared him he was so affectionate well we slept for a few hours then he went home he said he would come back later well he did not return and would not answer e amils i thought this was just cos he had had an argument with his step dad the night before and he was just sorting things out he then e mailed me 2 days later and said he was leeaving home to move 200 miles away back to wher he lived a year ago because of atmosphere at home so i nastily said dont contact me again and he has not and i dont know what to do he did not write a nasty e mail he just said sorry but he had to go but i still love him and dont know what to do i actually feel better now knowing what happened first time we split up but i just cannot bear to think ill never hear off hm again any advice
agnf666 Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 You jump too fast with the "Don't call me agian" He seems like he wantes to keep intouch with you. Maybe he wanted closure. I would just email him or call him and tell him how you fell. It won't hurt. It may helpy you get through this situation. Maybe if he knows that he might not leave town. So, I would talk to him ASAP!!! Tell him that you still have feelings for him and will miss him terribly. I hope it will work out for you.
Author snipit3172 Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 i have since e mailed him and said sorry for being nasty by saying dont contact me again and have said if he wants to contact me he can i would ring but dont know his number and not even sure if he will get email cos i dont think the mate he is staying at has a computer so i guess now i will have to just wait and see if he replys but i wont bet on it i need to try and carry on without thinking about him
agnf666 Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 I would wait and see what happens. So, I wouldn't make any further contact at this point. So, I would try to move on slowly. I know it will be hard!!! So... Don't sit by the computer waiting for a reply go out and have fun!!!!!!
Author snipit3172 Posted May 12, 2005 Author Posted May 12, 2005 thanks i wont contact him again i sort of managed for 7 months after he called it of last time at least if he does get my emails then he knows im here if he wants a chat i will still go out and enjoy myself like i did before and will try not to think about him he knows exactly how i feel about him we discused it when we had our chat he could not understand how i could feel like that about him cos no one ever has cared about him like i have at least he knows that now tho so its up to him thanks for replying agnf666
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