Jet96 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 i guess girls really like a guy who who cheat on them lie to them and just plain break thier heart rather than a guy that won't i also hear that in 10 years they won't go after the first guy anymore and would be wanting the second option i hope that means its a ray of hope for guys like me ?
smackie9 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 There will be no hope for you with a narrow minded perspective like that. Girls don't purposely date guys who are cheaters...no one wants to period. BUT girls purposely date guys who are confident, and are actively social....that is what the draw is. The more confident you are the more access you have to women so there is more opportunity to cheat, if they choose to, but not every guy like this should be looked at as a cheater. If you are some poor wall flower sitting there bitterly, no girl is going to look at you. 4
No Limit Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Hm, I'd like a gaming BF. Not addicted to games but playing a few. Oh, and the faithful type. And he should like bacon. 4
Mrin Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Hm, I'd like a gaming BF. Not addicted to games but playing a few. Oh, and the faithful type. And he should like bacon. Mmmmm bacon 3
Frank2thepoint Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Girls don't purposely date guys who are cheaters...no one wants to period. BUT girls purposely date guys who are confident, and are actively social....that is what the draw is. To be the devil's advocate, I know of three women at work that found out their boyfriends cheated (even numerous times). One or two broke up with them temporarily, but all three women are with their respective boyfriends to this day. Maybe some women can't resist a cheater's confidence.
fitnessfan365 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 . And he should like bacon. Hopefully you cook it in a skimpy apron with nothing else on underneath. It's funny because I recently learned that my GF loves to barbecue and she is making me a double bacon cheese burger this weekend. Made one of my fantasies come true. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I don't think it's that Women LIKE being treated this way... It's just that these guys tend to be mysterious and unavailable, which draws a lot of Women in. It seems like there's a portion of Women who get freaked out whenever a guy is into them - go figure.. Lol. Sometimes they want what they can't have. 1
Redhead14 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 i guess girls really like a guy who who cheat on them lie to them and just plain break thier heart rather than a guy that won't i also hear that in 10 years they won't go after the first guy anymore and would be wanting the second option i hope that means its a ray of hope for guys like me ? I am a woman, not a girl, but what I want in a man is the following: I want a man who treats me with respect, a man I can trust, a man who makes me feels safe (in the sense of being secure in the relationship and safe in terms of being able to communicate my needs and wants) and who can comfort me in times of difficulty. I want a man for whom I have respect, a man who trusts me, a man who feels safe with me and a man who I can support and comfort when he needs it. 1
fitnessfan365 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I am a woman, not a girl, but what I want in a man is the following: I want a man who treats me with respect, a man I can trust, a man who makes me feels safe (in the sense of being secure in the relationship and safe in terms of being able to communicate my needs and wants) and who can comfort me in times of difficulty. I want a man for whom I have respect, a man who trusts me, a man who feels safe with me and a man who I can support and comfort when he needs it. Haha.. Redhead you keep saying things that contradict. For the longest time I thought you were a man because of comments you made on the Alpha/beta dynamic. Then you mentioned guys that you'd dated. So then I thought you were a woman. However, then I saw a post you made to Gary saying "If I was a woman that pursued men etc" so then I thought you might be a lesbian or gay man. But now this post finally confirms that you're a heterosexual female that understands the male frame of mind and that likes more of a traditional dynamic with men approaching, and providing you comfort and security.
Phoe Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 While I admit I have been with men who cheated, I will proudly say that I took off and never looked back during those situations. In most cases, those men came across as nice guys. The sweet, reserved, virgin type. Even those ones can end up hurting someone. For me it seemed like I was pursuing guys that were a smart choice, but I am naturally naive. But all in all, what I want from a man is very simple. Nothing complex or convoluted about it.
Redhead14 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Haha.. Redhead you keep saying things that contradict. For the longest time I thought you were a man because of comments you made on the Alpha/beta dynamic. Then you mentioned guys that you'd dated. So then I thought you were a woman. However, then I saw a post you made to Gary saying "If I was a woman that pursued men etc" so then I thought you might be a lesbian or gay man. But now this post finally confirms that you're a heterosexual female that understands the male frame of mind and that likes more of a traditional dynamic with men approaching, and providing you comfort and security. I haven't said anything contradictory. And I am traditional, yet can think in a progressive way when someone wants to know how to "go that way". I don't need a man to do those things for me, because I can do that for myself. However, a man that knows how to do that and wants to support me in those ways, is a bonus
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Hm, I'd like a gaming BF. Not addicted to games but playing a few. Oh, and the faithful type. And he should like bacon. I would LOVE to find a cute, derpy, military-multiplayer gamer dude who knows how to work his tongue (if he's into anime, he gets a bonus!). BuhBAM! . 1
shvrk Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I honestly would not want to date an outgoing man. My boyfriend has few friends. He's also the quiet one in his family, but when it's just us he's pretty comfortable and chatty. I'm outgoing myself, so I assume dating an outgoing guy would be a constant fight for attention.
Redhead14 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Haha.. Redhead you keep saying things that contradict. For the longest time I thought you were a man because of comments you made on the Alpha/beta dynamic. Then you mentioned guys that you'd dated. So then I thought you were a woman. However, then I saw a post you made to Gary saying "If I was a woman that pursued men etc" so then I thought you might be a lesbian or gay man. But now this post finally confirms that you're a heterosexual female that understands the male frame of mind and that likes more of a traditional dynamic with men approaching, and providing you comfort and security. I forgot to mention the 5th need -- sex. I do think like a man sometimes
Gary S Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Women tend to go for the bad boy over the nice guy. They go for the bad boy because at least he acts like he has self-respect. There is also a second type of man most women desire - the man in the middle, the gentleman with an edge, who does not take junk from anyone. There's a little clue for ya 2
shvrk Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 There is also a second type of man most women desire - the man in the middle, the gentleman with an edge, who does not take junk from anyone. There's a little clue for ya There you go, that's my type of guy.
Redhead14 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Women tend to go for the bad boy over the nice guy. They go for the bad boy because at least he acts like he has self-respect. There is also a second type of man most women desire - the man in the middle, the gentleman with an edge, who does not take junk from anyone. There's a little clue for ya Gary, I'd be stuck in the middle with you.
fitnessfan365 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I forgot to mention the 5th need -- sex. I do think like a man sometimes Haha.. Very nice. I appreciate women that are honest about their sex drive. My GF is funny. She has a very high sex drive. But she had a religious upbringing and was considering children's ministry at one point. So even though she's always begging me to F'k her, she tries to make it seem like it was all my idea after the fact .Haha But she is slowly getting more confident and embracing her true nature which is good.
GemmaUK Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 No, we don't want cheaters and liars. Can't be bothered, it's too boring for me and they are way too easy to spot! Lol! However, we do get manipulators sometimes so it takes a while to suss out when their behaviour is so very subtle. Online and on forums the controlling types are much easier to spot. Usually they have an issue with 'all or may women' or they have particular 'issues with woman 'X' who did 'this'...er...once.... !!!!!
smackie9 Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I may have been cheated on but I didn't stick around to find out 1
Harold of Andraste Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Just be yourself* * Only if you already have no problems with women. Otherwise do not be yourself.
Erised Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Well that's silly. Women want a guy who will be enthralled with her and never break her heart. They simply want it to be the guy they want doing so. Much like men. People make decisions that divorced from the emotions and hormones don't seem to be in his or her best interest, yes. It's not women. I've had so many guy friends chase the girl that will only hurt him, too.
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