Gaeta Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 (edited) I have a date Saturday with someone I met 2 times already but we met once in 2013, second time in 2014, and here we are having our 3rd date in 2015. First time we met in 2013 I was still new to this online dating and I was blinded by all the hot dudes wanting to date me so I over-looked him and I am not proud to say I gave him the go-around for a couple of weeks before he understood he was not on top of my list and he moved on. Second time in 2014 he got back in touch with me. We had another very nice date but HE gave me to go around for a couple of weeks lol. He kept cancelling and rescheduling and I got tired and moved on. A couple of days ago he got back in touch with me and apologized for 2014. He said his interest in me never died but his desire to see me and his male ego had a constant inner battle. The fact I had rejected him the first time around made him feel like an idiot for going after me a second time. Guys on here have thoughts on that? So now that I gave him the go-around and he gave me the same we're kind of even and back to square one. I accepted his invitation. Edited April 10, 2015 by Gaeta 5
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 In my experience sometimes people don't always connect on the first pass - it's highly possible it might work out this time 2
Michelle ma Belle Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I don't have one this weekend but am planning to rendezvous with my man in PA at the end of the month for a long weekend at a luxury resort in the mountains. Keep us posted on how it goes Gaeta. It would make for a very interesting story if this guy ends up being "the one" 2
Gary S Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Well, you know I like you, and I hate to say something negative. But think about it.... if it did not work the first or second time, what do you think the chances are it will work a 3rd time? I mean, what's the track record suggest? Honestly sweetie, I think at worst, you are setting yourself up for a possible rejection, or at the least, wasting your time. I'm just being honest. That said, if you do decide to meet him, I wish you the best. 2
DivorcedDad123 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 GF and I are going to a nearby small town where they have some unique shops, then I'm taking her to dinner. We have the entire weekend to ourselves. Kids have no sports to attend this weekend. As far as him going back out with you, I couldn't do that. When I'm done,I'm done. At least he's willing to give it a go. 1
Phoe Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Me? Date? Never!! If this was a 3rd date in a more compact time frame, I'd be hesitant, but since your contact with him has been so spread out, I think it's reasonable to go into it with a fresh perspective about him. Have fun! 4
Syberia Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have a "date" this weekend, of course I've been married to the woman for almost 5 years now. Still, it's something we haven't been able to do much of lately due to terrible work schedules and tight money. 2
Penguin_hugs Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Grr my BF just had to delay his visit til tomorrow. We're in a LDR and his job isn't exactly a 9-5. He was supposed to be coming down this evening- but he's stuck at work so he won't make it down til tomorrow that means only one night together and no day trip as planned tomorrow he says he'll be down early tomorrow- but he's terrible at getting up- and usually isn't here til the evening when he says afternoon Gah ranting Enjoy your date Gaeta 2
Erised Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I've got a couple. I want to cancel. I want to avoid human interaction, and most certainly romantic human interaction. I don't want to be rude.
FortunateSon Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have 2 dates set up this weekend, just split with a girl I was dating for a couple months, time to get back in the game! 1
carhill Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 A couple of days ago he got back in touch with me and apologized for 2014. He said his interest in me never died but his desire to see me and his male ego had a constant inner battle. The fact I had rejected him the first time around made him feel like an idiot for going after me a second time. Guys on here have thoughts on that? Smooth talker. I have a date this weekend too. Maybe I'll get lucky. It's with the IRS. 2
Diezel Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have three dates this weekend, with the same person. Every night is date night with her. All together now: AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW. 9
Syberia Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have three dates this weekend, with the same person. Every night is date night with her. All together now: AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW. I wish I could say that. Unfortunately it's been more like this recently: I get up, go to work. She sleeps in, gets up, does whatever. She leaves for work. I get home from work. Do whatever. She comes home tired, we go to bed
fitnessfan365 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Good to see you getting back on the horse so quickly Gaeta. I mean very recently you were talking about hot sex with a guy that wanted to buy you jewelry, and now you already have a date with a completely different guy set up because that other situation didn't pan out. Life is short, so might as well enjoy it. 2
GemmaUK Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Enjoy Gaeta! Nope, no dates here. This week has been amusing though, you can tell spring is springing in the UK, men are all happy and smiley, winking, giving you the eye, tooting their horns, wolf whistling and waving.. I must admit though that I always thought I would be one of those invisible women by age 46 and clearly I'm not.....yet! Ha! ) 2
Ruby Slippers Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have invites, but not from anyone I'm all that excited about - mostly guys who would probably be fun fling material at best, some of them very sexy, but none who show much promise as Mr. Right. So I'm going to a nice jazz club with a single male friend, and we'll both be free to mingle May the love juju be with us all 4
Frank2thepoint Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have date with a mountain on Saturday. I'm going hiking with some buddies, so I guess it's better than a romantic date, because I'll be with friends. So now that I gave him the go-around and he gave me the same we're kind of even and back to square one. LOL, he was pissed at you for giving him the go-around, so he returned the treatment in kind. That's basically it. I do commend him for being honest with you. Hopefully it works out. Just stop playing games with each other. 1
Shining One Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have a date with my girlfriend tomorrow. I've been neglecting her this week due to family being in town and work, so I'll be making her favorite from scratch: Blackened Chicken with Fettuccini Alfredo and Roasted Red Peppers. 2
Emilia Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 First time we met in 2013 I was still new to this online dating and I was blinded by all the hot dudes wanting to date me so I over-looked him and I am not proud to say I gave him the go-around for a couple of weeks before he understood he was not on top of my list and he moved on. Second time in 2014 he got back in touch with me. We had another very nice date but HE gave me to go around for a couple of weeks lol. He kept cancelling and rescheduling and I got tired and moved on. A couple of days ago he got back in touch with me and apologized for 2014. He said his interest in me never died but his desire to see me and his male ego had a constant inner battle. The fact I had rejected him the first time around made him feel like an idiot for going after me a second time. Guys on here have thoughts on that? So now that I gave him the go-around and he gave me the same we're kind of even and back to square one. I accepted his invitation. Yeah, my thoughts are exactly as in my previous post to you in your last thread before this one: you seek out men that provide you with drama. You lost interest in the guy originally because he didn't provide you with the dysfunctional push-pull, second time around he gave you that exactly and now you are interested. this will not end well either.
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I have a date Saturday with someone I met 2 times already but we met once in 2013, second time in 2014, and here we are having our 3rd date in 2015. First time we met in 2013 I was still new to this online dating and I was blinded by all the hot dudes wanting to date me so I over-looked him and I am not proud to say I gave him the go-around for a couple of weeks before he understood he was not on top of my list and he moved on. Second time in 2014 he got back in touch with me. We had another very nice date but HE gave me to go around for a couple of weeks lol. He kept cancelling and rescheduling and I got tired and moved on. A couple of days ago he got back in touch with me and apologized for 2014. He said his interest in me never died but his desire to see me and his male ego had a constant inner battle. The fact I had rejected him the first time around made him feel like an idiot for going after me a second time. Guys on here have thoughts on that? So now that I gave him the go-around and he gave me the same we're kind of even and back to square one. I accepted his invitation. Have fun this weekend, Gaeta! Yes, you two are even-steven now. Where are you guys going and what are you going to wear? That's one of the cool parts about going out on a date, figuring out what I'm going to wear with what shoes and anticipating how much fun we'll have at where ever we're going! .
losangelena Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Me, I have one. BF and I are going to a co-worker's birthday party tonight, and we're having brunch with friends on Sunday. Makes having to do taxes in between bearable. 2
Author Gaeta Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 Yeah, my thoughts are exactly as in my previous post to you in your last thread before this one: you seek out men that provide you with drama. You lost interest in the guy originally because he didn't provide you with the dysfunctional push-pull, second time around he gave you that exactly and now you are interested. this will not end well either. Not sure where you see all that. There is 1 year of no communication in between dates, where is the drama? No one waited, or cried, or was offended. I gave him the go-around and he dropped the ball, when he gave me the go-around I dropped the ball. It was the right thing to do at the time. Last weekend I had a 2nd date with a man I had sex with. The following morning he text me 'good morning beautiful' and I've never heard back from him since. Fast forward 6 days, I have 2 dates this weekends with 2 new men. Where is the drama?
umirano Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 I have a date in 20 min. Music student, very cute smile. Off tinder. Canadian.
Author Gaeta Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 I have a date in 20 min. Music student, very cute smile. Off tinder. Canadian. oohh good luck !
Author Gaeta Posted April 11, 2015 Author Posted April 11, 2015 My date for tonight put me in charge of figuring out where we go. I hate that! He came up with the invite why can't he close the deal. I got another invitation for a brunch tomorrow. The man called me. Asked me my availability, he offered a place and time and he made reservation. BOOM! easy, no! Now, I looked up that brunch place and it's a fancy place with breakfast plates starting at $50. What the heck!
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