Mrin Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 That is an absolutely fabulous way to look at things, thank you very much! I think I am going to look at what has happened in a positive light, as learning experiences. You are right, I know now that I CAN have that connection with another person and it makes me happy to know it's a possibility. Thinking that way definitely helps me feel good about my choices instead of regretting them. Thank you for helping me see things rationally! My pleasure! I'm glad I could help. One final suggestion - acknowledging and letting go of My Stories that don't serve me is often harder done than it is said. As a writer, one technique I use for myself is to take one of my unwanted stories and write about it. Maybe it is a short story. Or a poem, letter, or even an essay. Or a post here on LS. I find it allows the unwanted story to get "out" of me. To have its day in the sun so to speak. Once out of me, I find saying goodbye to it to be much easier. Anyhow, something to think about. We all have our ways of dealing with such things. Best of luck! Mrin
xpaperxcutx Posted April 11, 2015 Posted April 11, 2015 Men are logical and women are emotional. As a woman, you date for love only to find sex. So you made the mistake of having sex with him too early. Next time, don't have sex with anyone until there's a title. Men like to work hard to achieve what they want. It makes getting the prize for them more satisfying. It's like sports. Would you feel like a winner if you a game by default as opposed to giving it your all and winning the trophy because of your hardwork? Men do not mind waiting for sex and you shouldn't be afraid to say no. Even if the sexual chemistry between you and the other person is very strong, learn to have a little self-control.
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