MonicaSays Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 3 years relationship. Broke up June 2014. Patched back again Dec 2014. Lasted for 3 months. Left me again after that. Pleaded at first. Found out she might have somebody new. got heartbroken. Went on nc for 12 days. She called me at my workplace questioning why she couldn't reach my cellphone (reception was bad. I did not block her calls) but I didn't allow the convo to last any longer. Just straight up said I was busy and hung up. A day after I called her. asked her if she wanna grab some drinks. I had no intention of reconciliation just wanna see her for drinks. Wrong move. She rejected me and said she's busy with her friends. I'm confused? Why do they always creep back and when we open up they pull back out again?
badpenny Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Never mind that.... What part of NC do YOU not get....?
Poppyolive Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 12 days is nothing. You need to go complete no contact.
hunk Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 No one can really tell you why she called. You probably should've just heard her out, seen what she wanted, then just gone straight NC. Not really sure why you just hung up on her when she called and then asked her out for drinks the next day. Kind of weird imo. It doesn't matter now though it's done. Also "i had no intention for reconciliation" - bro you know this is a lie. Just go NC and forget about this, as poppy said, 12 days is absolutely nothing, sounds like you guys have been doing this for a while and maybe she's just at the end of her rope with it. Don't try read into her behavior at this time, the most important thing you can do is fade out and assume it's over for good. You can make a thread called "why do they always creep back?" in 6 months or so when she's knocking at your door asking for you back, but not after 12 days good luck man
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