jay1638 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Hi its been a month now since we broke-up. I haven't been able to stay away. We have slept together 4 times since we broke up plus i know he has a new partner. The longest time that i stayed away is 12 days with not seeing him or contacting him. My main problem i wake up in the night and feel desperate to see him, and end up driving to his house and seeing him even when his new partner is there. I also make sure that the new partner knows that we have slept together. He keeps telling me that hes not in a relationship or sleeping with this other person, when i know they are there in bed together when i get there. Hes like a drug i need to get my fix. He tells me now that he hates me and he only focuses on the negatives of our relationship. So i know that going there is never the right thing to do. I also feel like stabbing him, don't think i could ever do it but its not a feeling that i like.
Seeker12 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Hey jay, look please understand that you are really emotional, very upset and unhappy about your break up. We have all been there and done and said very, very, very stupid things. What you need to do right now is cut him off, he is like a drug, you get your hit, but you are never really truly content. This desperation is one, maybe because its like a drug, and two, because you are not happy with yourself. Plus you are driving him further away from you, to be honest he probably only did use you for sex, do you want to be someones default, back up, second option, booty call? No, you are worth much more then that. But right now you are very hurt at the fact he isnt reciprocating the "love" you are showering on him, but do not do anything rash, take yourself out of the picture and give yourself time to rationalise instead of think emotionally.
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