Starplayer421 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I'm a freshman 19 year old woman in my second semester of college now (dorming). I spent a month and a half spending a lot of time with a guy. We cuddled, made out, I stayed over in his bed 7 times and we texted daily. He would invite me every night to come and hang. We told eachother we liked eachother. Some crazy drinking went down on my birthday in October (2014) and I ended up in the hospital for a week (the drinking just made it all surface - there were problems previously though ). Due to severe depression - which I continued to recover from even after release( meds take up to two months to work). Basically he dropped seeing me or even speaking to me except for one time after I came back to school. I told him how he played me and that I wanted to understand why he was acting this way. He often ignored my messages and I cried a lot over everything. Even to this day we don't talk or even acknowledge eachother/ blocked eachother on social media. we were never official and he was always weird about that. Things before the incident showed that he was somewhat caring but how could he be such of an ******* now?? Does he just not care about me at all? Share
emva07 Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 He liked you through the good times, not the bad. Sorry to say but there is a long life ahead of this immature guy behavior. At your age....I cried about it as I'm sure every woman on here will tell you they did. Now I just dwell about it for a couple days and meh....on to the next!
PegNosePete Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Yes, sorry to say that he is a class A douchebag. You need to ignore him from now on. He will not change. 1
hunk Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 He was only interested in sex and once you were hospitalized his interest dropped for whatever reason - you being in hospital/depressed or whatever. He didn't care about you as a romantic interest beyond sex. Judge him on his actions and his actions scream he doesn't care and never did. I am a guy around your age (older, but i've been there), trust me on this. Forget about this guy cos he's already forgotten about you and wishes you would get over him. The only attention you'll get from him is if you're at a mutual party and you're both drunk and he's horny. I promise. Sorry to tell you this but this is how it is. If he liked you, you wouldn't be posting here. It's pretty simple.
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