Alohafia Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. He moved here from across the country to be close to me. We've been having arguments because I'm Jealous especially when I drink. Last Friday he broke up with me and packed his things and left. My girlfriend "lovingly" told me to download this dating app just for fun. I did and the next day we were at a mutual friends party together and he acted fine and kissed me. He came to my house and saw the app. I dd not flirt with anyone on the website but guys did write me calling me pretty etc. He flipped out!!!! Badly.. We had a very very bad fight and he took off. He told me the next day we were done for good and I laid in bed for three days crying and hurting. I deleted the website and I deleted everyone whom he ever found to be a threat. Am I wasting my time trying to win him back??? Our relationship was wonderful. We are both hot tempered and bicker a lot but our love was crazy... There was nothing I wouldn't do for him. He's been telling me that he loves me and misses me but he has too much pride to take me back... Any feedback is appreciated. I want him back so badly. He's the love of my life
ZiggyZoo Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 He loves and misses you but has too much pride to take you back? Forget him, anyone who really loved you wouldn't let pride get in the way. And why were you using a dating app in the first place? I don't care how lovingly your friend asked you to download it, you have your own mind and should know that it was inappropriate. I don't blame him at all for getting pissed at seeing other guys flirting with you. I think you both have some growing up to do. This whole dynamic, with you getting jealous yet downloading dating apps, and him and his pride sounds like a toxic mess.
PegNosePete Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 You did nothing wrong. He dumped you, so you downloaded a dating app. You were single so what's wrong with that? He sounds like a douche, he wants to have his cake and eat it. He wants to dump you but expects you to remain faithful to him. Tell him to take a hike. 1
d0nnivain Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Too much drama over such a trivial thing. If you can get him to sit down & talk, explain you downloaded the app after he left because you thought he was done. Make a productions of deleting the app in front of him. Going forward, curb your jealousy or it will wreck your next relationship too & work on your communication.
ZiggyZoo Posted April 10, 2015 Posted April 10, 2015 Oh, I apologize. I got the timeline wrong and missed that you were broken up BEFORE you downloaded the app. In that case, yeah, download away. Sorry I mis-read that. He's still not your guy though, I'm not changing my mind on that...
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