Completely dropped after hospitalization

[Starplayer421]

I'm a freshman 19 year old woman in my second semester of college now (dorming). I spent a month and a half spending a lot of time with a guy. We cuddled, made out, I stayed over in his bed 7 times and we texted daily. He would invite me every night to come and hang. We told eachother we liked eachother. Some crazy drinking went down on my birthday in October (2014) and I ended up in the hospital for a week (the drinking just made it all surface - there were problems previously though ). Due to severe depression - which I continued to recover from even after release( meds take up to two months to work). Basically he dropped seeing me or even speaking to me except for one time after I came back to school. I told him how he played me and that I wanted to understand why he was acting this way. He often ignored my messages and I cried a lot over everything. Even to this day we don't talk or even acknowledge eachother/ blocked eachother on social media. we were never official and he was always weird about that. Things before the incident showed that he was somewhat caring but how could he be such of an ******* now?? Does he just not care about me at all?

[NC-Thomas]

I am going to be blunt here. I think you were just a temporary fling for him. He might already be dating someone else.

 

When someone doesnt care for you, you generally move on and cut you losses.

[amaysngrace]

He probably got freaked because of your depression.

 

I hate to say this but it's probably a blessing in disguise. He doesn't sound strong enough for you to want him by your side. I think he's shown you that.

[Karin2rinkashi]

I'm a freshman 19 year old woman in my second semester of college now (dorming). I spent a month and a half spending a lot of time with a guy. We cuddled, made out, I stayed over in his bed 7 times and we texted daily. He would invite me every night to come and hang. We told eachother we liked eachother. Some crazy drinking went down on my birthday in October (2014) and I ended up in the hospital for a week (the drinking just made it all surface - there were problems previously though ). Due to severe depression - which I continued to recover from even after release( meds take up to two months to work). Basically he dropped seeing me or even speaking to me except for one time after I came back to school. I told him how he played me and that I wanted to understand why he was acting this way. He often ignored my messages and I cried a lot over everything. Even to this day we don't talk or even acknowledge eachother/ blocked eachother on social media. we were never official and he was always weird about that. Things before the incident showed that he was somewhat caring but how could he be such of an ******* now?? Does he just not care about me at all?

 

 

 

^^^^ What they said

[seminoles84]

You should date more. You are too young to be tied down. Enjoy College! I know I did..

[stillafool]

He definitely freaked out due to your depression. It was too much responsibility for someone so young to take on. He wants a gf who is emotionally stable. I hope you are doing better by now.