Bobbi7 Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 I've been causally seeing this guy on and off and I noticed that He's part of a meetup group and noticed that he's been "bringing a guest" when he rsvp's to an event. So far this is the second time. I'm not sure if he's bringing a girl with him. Its driving me nuts. Apparently this "guest" isn't part of this meetup group..so who could it be? They are seeing a musical guest playing at a club, but before the show starts the event host reserved a table for at least 20 people for a meet and greet-to get drinks and eat. I'm sitting there thinking, who is he bringing as a guest? Could it be a chick that he's dating or a male friend? I just don't think guys bring their male friends to meetup events..I always assume its a girl/girlfriend.
jay1983 Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 Well meetups are to meet new people, the only reason guys really go to those things is see if there're any cute gals, so I wouldn't take a date there. Reading a couple of your other threads, you seem paranoid.
Author Bobbi7 Posted April 9, 2015 Author Posted April 9, 2015 Yeah, well he's been a part of this meetup group for 2 years now and from the other past meet-ups, he's never brought a guest...until recently. He's also friends with these meetup people, so if he's seriously dating a girl that he must really like, how likely will he bring her to these events and introduce her to them? I mean, would a guy bring his buddy as a guest to drinks and hookah...doesn't that sound odd to you. I don't know. Maybe I could be paranoid. Maybe not.
PegNosePete Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 I've brought friends, male and female, to meetup events. And my gf too. Why not? It's just a way of finding people in your local area with a common interest. It's not a dating site. People read your history because if there is a pattern to your questions then it likely affects the answers.
Diezel Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 I'm an organizer of a meetup group and have participated in some others. I have brought male friends. I've seen other men bring their male friends. So, you assume incorrectly.
salparadise Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 Its a different guy people! Geez. But thanks for bringing that up. Why do people even look at a person's history when someone asks a question? To put things in context... makes it hard for the nut-cases to bull$hit... doesn't seem fair, eh?
almond Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 If you're not comfortable casually dating and this is making you feel distressed, why don't you ask him to be exclusive? If he isn't interested in anything but a casual arrangement, then it may be wise to move on, as you're obviously looking for something different.
d0nnivain Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 Why don't you ask him who accompanied him to these events? 1
central Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 Ask. And yes, I've taken male friends to meetup events. The ones I participate in either have no available women that interest me or the male friends aren't on the market!
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