Heatemyheart89 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 My boyfriend of 8 months told me he doesn't (and never has ) loved me. I am absolutely devastated. I'm going through a horrendous health scare at the moment and really relied on him for support . He said he was going to give it a few months to see if he did . Should I go no contact with him ? I think I want to be friends with him eventually but this is a huge blow . (I ended it with him ).
Miss Sisyphus Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Wow. I'm sorry to hear that. What caused him to tell you that? What was the catalyst"
spiderowl Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 I am really sorry to hear what you are going through. One wonders why he was with you for eight months if he felt like that. Maybe he's just having a doubting period. Did he say this after he found you might be ill? Some guys get really freaked out if their partner is ill, they start to demand all the attention. Having said that, if this is what he does you need someone more mature. You are the one that is hurt by him confessing his lack of feelings so it's only fair that you should be able to go no contact if you choose. Leaving him was probably the only thing you could do, once you knew. I'm only sorry it took him so long to decide, or perhaps he's one of these guys that rarely has feelings and if they do, only for a short while. It's time to look after yourself now and not worry about him. No contact is all about self-respect and taking yourself back from the person you had entrusted it to. I feel sure that once you are over this relationship, there will be a much better guy on the horizon who will fall in love with you. xx 1
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