Bobbi7 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 I'm sure if a guy was seriously dating someone, he would delete his OLD profile entirely, right?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 No. Probably only once the exclusivity talk happens.
Author Bobbi7 Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 So, not logging in for awhile means he's occupied with someone else at the moment?
amber2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 So, not logging in for awhile means he's occupied with someone else at the moment? Can't speak for guys. If I have not logged into my accounts for weeks, it means I have met someone I am interested in real life, not online.
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 So, not logging in for awhile means he's occupied with someone else at the moment? Him not logging in to his OLD profile could be for a myriad of reasons! He could have the flu, he could be currently dating someone that he's into, he could've not paid his Comcast bill and have no internet, etc., etc. Don't EVER assume ANYTHING with regard to that. And don't assume that a guy whose dating someone seriously would necessarily delete their OLD profile. They may or may not, depending on their intentions and goals regarding using OLD as their main dating platform. Why don't you just ask the guy in question DIRECTLY as to why he hasn't logged in to the OLD site he's using? Is he someone you were interested in and have since stopped messaging with? Is he someone you used to date? Is he someone that you were messaging with but ended up ghosting or nexting you? . 3
Mrlonelyone Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 The law of averages says it is more likely he just got tired of the OLD treadmill. Chit Chat Meet for coffee No spark at all Repeat. Or Chit chat Coffee date Dinner/movie/creative date no spark/no sex rinse repeat 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Can't speak for guys. If I have not logged into my accounts for weeks, it means I have met someone I am interested in real life, not online. For guys it means we have at least one prospect that we're pursuing in real life, and we've obtained their Number so we have no use for the OLD platform. If they've been offline a couple weeks, they either gave up, or they're seeing someone.
DoesntGetIt Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 So, not logging in for awhile means he's occupied with someone else at the moment? I hadn't logged into my account in about a month. I just wasn't feeling like dealing with more OLD. I did finally put it inactive the other day, and none of that is due to me seriously dating anyone. Sometimes people just get burned out with how annoying/****ty OLD is. 1
Gary S Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 Him not logging in to his OLD profile could be for a myriad of reasons! He could have the flu, he could be currently dating someone that he's into, he could've not paid his Comcast bill and have no internet, etc., etc. Don't EVER assume ANYTHING with regard to that. And don't assume that a guy whose dating someone seriously would necessarily delete their OLD profile. They may or may not, depending on their intentions and goals regarding using OLD as their main dating platform. Why don't you just ask the guy in question DIRECTLY as to why he hasn't logged in to the OLD site he's using? Is he someone you were interested in and have since stopped messaging with? Is he someone you used to date? Is he someone that you were messaging with but ended up ghosting or nexting you? . - Right, it just means he's busy - with any of 136,000 things.
marigo Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 This is kinda why I'm glad the guy I was dating for 3 months that I met through Tinder unmatched me 3 weeks after we broke up. I only go on there to check and see if he goes on. It hurt at first because I felt like he cut me out of his life even though we stopped talking on there after the 2nd date. But at the end the day, I think it was for the best because knowing me if he keeps going on it will drive me crazy thinking he's looking and if he stops I'll assume he's seeing someone and it will then drive me crazy also. We still text so I guess he didn't really cut me out of his life? I dunno. If this guy you're talking about is someone you're dating, maybe you should just ask him.
katiegrl Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 OP is this an ex you have been stalking (ahem, following) on line, and you're wondering, since he hasn't logged on, if that means he met someone and is dating her exclusively? Thus, squashing YOUR dreams of getting back together with him? Come on, spill the beans...we're here to listen, support and advise.
fitnessfan365 Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 I know that on Match, pages stay up even after a person is no longer using the site. So on profiles that say "Active in Over Three Weeks" it's most likely a deactivated profile.
SoulCat Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 So, not logging in for awhile means he's occupied with someone else at the moment? Maybe, but not necessarily. He could be on holiday, away for work, moving house, in hospital. Or just bored with the whole OLD thing. It could be a million different things. Maybe it's time you stop reading into things a bit too much?
Redhead14 Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 I'm sure if a guy was seriously dating someone, he would delete his OLD profile entirely, right? I don't think that can be "assumed". (I am a woman). I have an OLD account and I grew tired of the process and so I didn't go there for a long time. In the meantime, I did meet someone and am in a relationship. I've never bothered to take the profile down nor have I visited it. It's just there.
PegNosePete Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 Maybe he was in an auto accident. Maybe he got arrested. Maybe he got abducted by aliens.
central Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 I'm sure if a guy was seriously dating someone, he would delete his OLD profile entirely, right? My profile is still on match, essentially unchanged from when I created it 20 years ago. And I married a woman I met on match 15 years ago. So, no, not everyone deletes their OLD profile regardless of circumstances.
Mrin Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 For me it would be. I treated OLD like a switch. If I was actively looking for more women to date, I used it. If I was casually multidating some women, I didn't use it but left the profile up. I only ever pulled it down when I was taking a sabbatical from dating or when I met my soulmate/GF. Here's to hoping it never goes back up! 1
Rko28 Posted April 9, 2015 Posted April 9, 2015 Ive hidden my profiles off POF and tinder at the minute as I'm in contact with ones that I see potential with. It got to the point that there was too much going on with them and more distractions and a possibility of lookign for someone better. If I become exclusive with any of them then I'll delete my profiles, if none of them come to anything then I'll reactivate.
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