emotionsmessmeup Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 he does exactly the same things he used to do with u with a new girl after the break up. for eg: call her the same names talk to her at the same hours...before sleeping.. talk for hours like he used to talk to her.. do exactly the same things....!
Merin Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 It means he's moving on.. Most people have certain things they do or behaviours they display when they are persuing someone.
mixwell Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Yeah I agree. He is just using his patterns and game from the old relationship in the new one.. Thats lame though.. I would never call a new girl the same name i used to call my ex.. Theres just that little inside thing with us and i couldn't picture calling another girl that.. That would be too weird for me. But everything else he is doing, he has learned from this past relationship with you (i am assuming) and using it on this new girl, since he already knows now how to act or whatever...
supergirl7777 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Yeah dude dont go calling the new girl names u used to call your ex. that sucks, i know if my ex did that i would be very upset.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted April 15, 2005 Author Posted April 15, 2005 exactly..call her the same name... talk at the same time.. same behaviour pattern.... same bed...! she was a virgin like me... using her like a punching bag.. SAME LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP...
Bubbles Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 I think it means that HE has an agenda and will do the same things because that is what HE wants to do and he probably hopes that some sad girl will fall into it without questioning his intentions or past relations. He reminds me of a guy who would send away for a "mail order bride" he'll treat them all the same way until one of them accepts it. bubbles
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 I called my ex "hon" or "honey" all the time. I can't bring myself to use that term with my boyfriend. He calls me babe and luv. I don't feel comfortable using those terms in the first place with any guy, I never have. I ALWAYS use them with my kids though, weird eh? Any ideas what other names I can use? In emails i use hotstuff, sweetie, sexy...
blind_otter Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Originally posted by supergirl7777 Yeah dude dont go calling the new girl names u used to call your ex. that sucks, i know if my ex did that i would be very upset. I am from the south, so I call pretty much all guys "sugar", "honey", "hun", "sweetie", "babe". The only thing I do different is, when I am f*cking someone, I tend to call them "baby" when I'm drunk. I do it to all guys I have had intimate relationships with. I guess I'm either unimagintive, or I use pet names excessively.
Illusion24 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Means he has no game....no imagination! Be glad he moved on...find someone to give you some real lovin..
SadAndLonely Posted April 17, 2005 Posted April 17, 2005 There are only so many terms of endearment, and if you date enough people, you're bound to go through them. I think it's a bit silly to get upset because he called you sweetie or something and now he's calling someone else sweetie. Now, if it were a PERSONAL pet name, then yeah, it's a bit lame. But if he's your ex, you shouldn't even be worrying about it. He's entitled to call her whatever he wants, as long as she doesn't mind. Like blind_otter, I call EVERYONE I'm friends with or have affection for (male or female) honey or sweetie or dear, but I'm not from the south. Southern women DO do this, though, and I think it's cute. Whenever I go to Mississippi I encounter nice older women calling me hon and sugar, and they don't even know me. I love it!
Lucky Dog Posted April 17, 2005 Posted April 17, 2005 I dated three women in a row with the same name, so I didn't have any choice but to call them the same thing
Weird Posted April 17, 2005 Posted April 17, 2005 doesnt sound like the guy has any issues so dunno why you are wondering.
greenhorn Posted April 17, 2005 Posted April 17, 2005 Originally posted by Lucky Dog I dated three women in a row with the same name, so I didn't have any choice but to call them the same thing You must be kidding Did you find them using telephone directory ??
RecordProducer Posted April 17, 2005 Posted April 17, 2005 It means you were his type. And she is too. John Derek married Ursula Andress then Linda Evans then Bo Derek. They all look the same, especially Linda and Bo are almost like twins. John obviously had a certain type he liked, it doesn't mean he was searching for Linda in Bo. On the contrary, he left Linda for Bo and Linda was very hurt. He stayed with Bo for many years until he died. You see the analogy? BTW, I didn't quite understand your question. What do you mean by what does it mean when...?
Isabella82 Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 It definately hurts when you find out your ex is doing all the same things with someone new. I never call my exes by the same name just because its too wierd. I mean of course babe or baby but if they have an uncommon nickname that its too wierd. My ex in high school called me BabyDoll and still when I hear it I think about him. My most recent ex called me pookie or Boo, and if he used those names on someone else I would be really hurt by it. I remember I found out my ex from a long time ago was using our song with his current girlfriend and that hurt a little. I just can't seem to use the same things like that.....too many memories of the ex.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 My bf calls me luv and baby. I don't feel right calling a 40 yr old man babe, baby or sweetie, and hun or honey are what I called my ex. Once in a while I'll use sexy or lover or hotstuff. But the context isn't always there for those terms.
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