FaithInTheDark Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Hi I met a guy online and the date went good for me. Good convo ,jokes and fun time. We texted a bit after the date but felt I didn't hear from as much as before we met. But I did hear from him hear and there...I just asked if he was into doing something together in the future and he said sure, I'll look at my sechule on Sunday. Didnt hear from him for a few days and was about to write him off. But on Sunday he did send me his shifts for the next two weeks. I said I'd like to see him and he said for me to pick a day a was free. A few days after that, I text him to see how he was doing. He was friendly through the text... Well two days later not getting any reaching out texts like before we met. I'm confused, if I should just back away until or if I hear from him. If he didn't want to hang out again why would me message me his sechule and tell me to pick a day if he isnt interested ... But the communication is less frequent so I'm not sure with this guy,,,, Any thoughts?
Gary S Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Not much of a pursuer is he? Just says here are the days, you do all the work? I can see the next date now... Him: "So, what do you want to do?" Usually women like a leader.
PegNosePete Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 I said I'd like to see him and he said for me to pick a day a was free. A few days after that, I text him to see how he was doing. Err, so he asked you to pick a date that he's free, and you ignored him for a few days, then gave him a vague "how are you" text? I think we've found where the breakdown in communication happened. If you wanted to see him again why didn't you pick a date that he's free?
Vintage79 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 This sounds like neutral interest on both sides to me - if you really want(ed) to see him, you should have suggested a specific date that was compatible with his schedule - yeah, he could have been a bit more definitive, but he told you his entire schedule and was trying to make it easy for you. If you want to see him, you still have his schedule (assuming it hasn't changed), mention a day you'd like to see him and just see how it goes...worst case you get a no response and write him off.
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