JOkER2 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 There was this girl that came to my work yesterday. I rang her out. She was really nice and laughed at everything I said. She told me she just came from work which is two stores away from mine. I just met her Yesterday should I go to her store and ask her out?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 If you can find an excuse to go to her store, I'd say do it. Chat her up again, see if she's still flirtatious with you - and then ask her out. Now if she works at a Beauty Salon for Women, or something where it would be weird for a guy to be shopping around- then you need to be more creative.
Gary S Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 She knows where you are, why not let her come to you? If she likes you, you will know. Only fools rush in. 2
d0nnivain Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Do you have any reason to believe there was a spark or connection on her side? If you were just the guy who rung her out, she will be uncomfortable if you pop up out of the blue to ask her out. Go to her store & flirt, sure. See what happens the next time she comes to your store. But my advice right now is wait. Be patient & see how this unfolds. Rushing in has too much potential to backfire. 1
Author JOkER2 Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 She works at ulta beauty but I could go in to buy some product or shampoo. I know some of u say wait but what if she wants me to take the initiative? She kinda stuck around after the transaction was complete which makes me believe she liked me and wanted to keep chatting. Idk what to do but my anxiety is kinda going off
d0nnivain Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 She works at ulta beauty but I could go in to buy some product or shampoo. I know some of u say wait but what if she wants me to take the initiative? She kinda stuck around after the transaction was complete which makes me believe she liked me and wanted to keep chatting. Idk what to do but my anxiety is kinda going off I want you to take the initiative by going to her store & flirting with her without asking her out initially. At this point, you are ONLY some guy who rang her out at store. You need to be sure she saw you when she was in your store as opposed to clerks being invisible. Simply because you felt this connection to her, if she has no idea who you are, asking her out will get you a rejection. All I'm saying is test the waters before you dive in.
Author JOkER2 Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 So u think I should go into the store talk with her and if the chemistry still there and she remembers me then ask her out?
d0nnivain Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 So u think I should go into the store talk with her and if the chemistry still there and she remembers me then ask her out? Yes. Exactly.
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 She knows where you are, why not let her come to you? If she likes you, you will know. Only fools rush in. Ya know, every time I read your posts, my eyes glide towards the left at Chevy Chase's avatar. He's such a goofball but was a good looking guy back in the day of his National Lampoon's vaca flicks. Just curious, do you look like him at all? Or is he just an actor that you like? . 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 She works at ulta beauty but I could go in to buy some product or shampoo. I know some of u say wait but what if she wants me to take the initiative? She kinda stuck around after the transaction was complete which makes me believe she liked me and wanted to keep chatting. Idk what to do but my anxiety is kinda going off Hahaahaha.... I was going to say "If she works at like ULTA or something, don't go in there!" not sure why that popped into my head at the time... Funny.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Why not go into ulta? Why would a guy go in a beauty store? Unless you're buying a gift or something for someone. You don't want to come across as showing up JUST to speak to her.
Gary S Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Ya know, every time I read your posts, my eyes glide towards the left at Chevy Chase's avatar. He's such a goofball but was a good looking guy back in the day of his National Lampoon's vaca flicks. Just curious, do you look like him at all? Or is he just an actor that you like? . - I like his one-liners, I use them a lot. Do I look like him? As Chevy might say, "As far as you know"! 1
Author JOkER2 Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 They have products for men like shampoo and hair styling gel
Author JOkER2 Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 Well they do have products for men like shampoos and styling gel
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Yeah but I don't think most Men get that stuff at that kind of location. It's probably more for girlfriends who need to buy **** for their BF. Maybe I'm wrong though.
d0nnivain Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 It's a store. You can go to browse. Ask the girl some inane question about one of the male products. Gage her interest in you. You don't even have to buy the product you asked about.
Author JOkER2 Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 Well I have an hour left of work until I go to ulta. So does everyone agree I should go over there and see where the conversation goes and if it's go well I should ask her out 1
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