Author Chaser of Eros Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 I stopped after the first sentence, because I was already whincing from reading that your letter starts off with an apology. Forget it. Don't send that. Ever. Specially with the first sentence being an underlying foundation of insecurity. lol, I disagree with your initial judgement without reading the full letter but I respect your stance. thanks for the input.
Author Chaser of Eros Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 I guess... live and learn. You'll eventually see what her real response to the letter is. Someone t-bag your cheerios this morning man? lol You're coming off pretty negative for no apparent reason.
Diezel Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 I'm not the one who got called a "friend" after such an emotional letter. Maybe my advice was realistic and not pessimistic and probably because I've lived a little more than you have. Life isn't always a Hollywood movie. But I'm also not always 100% right, but you very well may just be stuck in the Friendzone already. Only time will tell. 1
Author Chaser of Eros Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 I am glad you had a positive response, although it sounds like she put that FRIEND word in there for a reason. You are a very deep feeling and expressive person. You are going to find it challenging to find kindred spirits in this shallow world. Don't let it change who you are - just focus on finding those who get you. They are out there. This girl may end up a friend, may end up more, and maybe not. But good for you for being true to yourself anyway. I completely understand you. and yea, I figured win or lose I had to give it to her. when I initially decided against giving it to her I was feeling like crap. even though my heart was pounding some what when I gave it to her, it felt like the pressure of it all was able to vent and ease up on my chest and mind.
Author Chaser of Eros Posted April 8, 2015 Author Posted April 8, 2015 I'm not the one who got called a "friend" after such an emotional letter. Maybe my advice was realistic and not pessimistic and probably because I've lived a little more than you have. Life isn't always a Hollywood movie. But I'm also not always 100% right, but you very well may just be stuck in the Friendzone already. Only time will tell. Lol, I don't know if it's something I said to anger you but if it was then allow me to apologize to you and say sorry. and I didn't disregard your posting based off of judging who has "lived more" than the next. outside of my letter and screen name you know very little about me, I won't jump into a pissing match with you. I just hope the next response you add to this thread is one a little more positive. you came off super negative for no apparent reason. but regardless, thanks for your input and if you're having a crappy day then I hope things get better for you. (no sarcasm implied or included)
pteromom Posted April 8, 2015 Posted April 8, 2015 Lol, I don't know if it's something I said to anger you but if it was then allow me to apologize to you and say sorry. and I didn't disregard your posting based off of judging who has "lived more" than the next. outside of my letter and screen name you know very little about me, I won't jump into a pissing match with you. I just hope the next response you add to this thread is one a little more positive. you came off super negative for no apparent reason. but regardless, thanks for your input and if you're having a crappy day then I hope things get better for you. (no sarcasm implied or included) Nah, he's always like that. But that is nice that you are apologizing. 1
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