How do I know if a woman is giving me a green light to approach ?

[My lover]

Men find it difficult when trying to read signs of attraction from a woman. Please help.

[Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646]

There aren't always signs, she might not even be thinking about you approaching her (although she may be open to it). Just go up to her and chat.

 

Try not to be too serious, be a bit flirtatious. If she is smiling or seems very interested in what you have to say, she likes you. If she is acting polite or disinterested, she might be waiting for you to leave her alone.

[salparadise]

They always give you a sign, sometimes subtle, sometimes... not so much.

[StanMusial]

It depends on the situation. In general if a girl is hanging around your personal area with no obvious need to be there then there's a good chance you are the reason.

[Clockwork]

Never waste a chance to go up and talk to the girl. If she isn't interested, you'll find out in a hurry. I once hit on a gas station cashier that I swore up and down was hitting on me. So I asked her out. It turns out I was wrong. So what? You take a chance. Real men get shot down, happens all the time. It only takes one time to NOT get shot down.

[oldshirt]

The signs of attractions and the green lights can be subtle and difficult to pick up.

 

 

The signs of noninterest are pretty glaring though, like walking away and excusing themselves and giving other women the "save me!" look.

 

 

If you see a gal that interests you, approach her and strike up a conversation. If she walks away, let her and go talk to someone else. If she excuses herself, say it was nice to meet you and go approach someone else. If she gives someone else the "save me!" look, walk away and go approach someone else.

[todreaminblue]

women arent road accidents waiting to happen...you dont need to read signals or traffic lights to approach or stop or slow down...you just need to go up and say hi....have a conversation....ask her how her day has been her week her year ...whatever you do ...all you need to do is act and have some confidence in who you are.....if you dont feel that confidence...fake it till you do feel it...the more you immerse yourself the more comfortable it becomes .........the rest will happen on its own accord..forget the green light red light districts.....theres nothing stopping you.....deb