parker87 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Hi All This is my first post. Just want to seek some advise from you guys. I'm with my ex gf for 7 months relationship. Things went well for the first 2 months. Suddenly on the third month, her ex bf comes into the picture. He texted me and wants me to leave her. He says that they still sleeping together and they are colleagues. At first I do trust my gf, she apologised to me and ask me to trust her. As times goes by, she seems to be very unhappy whenever I'm with her. I did try to communicate with her and all she says was nothing. She keep quiet. So fast forward, I have decided to do something to find out what is the problem. I checked her phone. I wasn't surprised, I saw them texting love msgs and one thing I saw that really broke my heart is all the photos inside her gallery are all her ex bf photo. Not even one is mine! I confronted her the next day, she denied that they are still texting and seeing each other. I just don't understand why is she still lying even if she knows that I checked her phone. She did not say anything much about it. The only thing that she is told me was they can't be together because her ex already has a wife. At the moment, I'm very disappointed and devastated. I just don't understand what is she thinking. During that night, she texted me. Saying that she is sorry, she don't mean to hurt and feels very bad about it. I was angry at the moment so I didn't respond much. For 10 days, we have not seem or text each other. I having a mixed feelings right now. I still miss her very much. I had been approaching some friends for advise. All of them ask me to move on. But deep down inside my heart, I still love her. I just don't know why is she doing this to me because all along I have been treating her well. She is said she love me but why? If she still love her ex why is she still together with me. Does anyone have such exp before? Or should I text her sometime later to find out what exactly went wrong in our relationship? Does she miss me during this time?
hunk Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Move on, she doesn't care. She is still in love with her ex. She doesn't even have the respect for you to come clean about what's going on. You staying in this relationship for 1 more day is effectively cutting yours balls off and handing them to her on a plate. She's been sleeping with him since that third month AT LEAST. Disappear and never speak to her again, maintaining any contact with her at this point is just embarrassing. Her actions override anything she tells you, and her actions for the past few months have made it painfully clear she wants her ex and not you. You know what you gotta do man, finish this today and be done with her. 1
Gorge823 Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 Hi, your story really got into my nerves. I am a girl and I know girls well. I am very sorry to say this, but in your story, I can see that she really doesn't love you. Well, yeah, maybe she likes you, but love differs from like. It's hard to advise you to "move on", because I know how it feels, it's easy to say but indeed hard to do. Better, pray to God that He may give you the strenght right now, after that, delete everything as in ALL that reminds you of her, then, have some time for yourself and start getting busy of living a new life WITHOUT HER. One thing more, she doesn't deserve you, you deserve better girl and I know that that girl is waiting for you too. Surely, you will be fine in God's time. My prayers for your broken heart.
dvx Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 The hell is wrong with you, or her. The thing that is wrong with you is that you haven't finished this slag a long time ago.
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