Author Erised Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 - Ha-ha! You have a good attitude. We could be friends.... just friends Good attitude, but not grammar. Why can't I edit that post?
Gary S Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Seriously, here is the deal... you can't expect to kiss guys and contemplate future sex and believe that they would never start falling for you. Their feelings are separate from yours. I think him referring to you is a great compliment. But I also understand how it would make you feel uncomfortable when you are not on the same page. Technically, it's a classic mis-match. That's probably why it's easier when both are head-over-heels - they have the same matching (high) level of love. 1
kissmybooty Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Haha you are a boss teach me your ways. At some point I do want to be a boss ***** who's not looking for a relationship. Well that's all I have to say , not particularly an expert with dealing with that not to that level yet.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Condoms are not 100% for anything and less for some things than others. I won't ever be intimate with anyone without a full discussion of current habits and seeing test results. I don't think anyone should. Condoms are pretty effective for MOST stuff. You can still get herpes, but its much less likely, especially as long as the other person doesn't have visible sores. Anyways like 80% of the population has herpes so its kinda moot. You can get HPV though if you do O unprotected, so if you're worried about that, cover up or don't do it.
fitnessfan365 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I only use a condom when sex is casual. When two people agree to be exclusive, you get tested and show results as proof. Then she goes on birth control and there isn't any need for a condom after that. Now if a woman was on birth control and she still insisted on using a condom after becoming exclusive, I wouldn't trust her. In my experience, the only women who make condoms a necessity in the long run, are those that like to have multiple partners.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I only use a condom when sex is casual. When two people agree to be exclusive, you get tested and show results as proof. Then she goes on birth control and there isn't any need for a condom after that. Now if a woman was on birth control and she still insisted on using a condom after becoming exclusive, I wouldn't trust her. In my experience, the only women who make condoms a necessity in the long run, are those that like to have multiple partners. BC Pills isn't 100% and I heard it loses effectiveness over time. Using 2 methods (doesn't need to be condom) is the best way. Sure its a low chance it could happen to you, but who wants to be a statistic?
smackie9 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Here we go again with the fuzzy borders.....If you are seeing each other and emotionally working towards sex, it's a relationship whether you like it or not. It is what it is. You are progressing to another level of intimacy....that's what you do when you are in a relationship. Why is it any different in your case? You both agreed that you both can date other people? That it's ok to have other encounters with others? NO? well why wouldn't you call it what it is then? You are being silly. And BTW you can have sex without the emotional attachment....obviously FWB/ Booty call isn't really for you then. In those situations there is a promise not to involve any attachment or emotions, and here you are wanting to be emotionally connected before having sex.
Author Erised Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 Here we go again with the fuzzy borders.....If you are seeing each other and emotionally working towards sex, it's a relationship whether you like it or not. It is what it is. You are progressing to another level of intimacy....that's what you do when you are in a relationship. Why is it any different in your case? You both agreed that you both can date other people? That it's ok to have other encounters with others? NO? well why wouldn't you call it what it is then? You are being silly. And BTW you can have sex without the emotional attachment....obviously FWB/ Booty call isn't really for you then. In those situations there is a promise not to involve any attachment or emotions, and here you are wanting to be emotionally connected before having sex. I told him I wasn't currently sleeping with anyone else and I would let him know if that changes, but I do go out with other guys, and encouraged him to do the same though he hadn't exercised that option.
Author Erised Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 I only use a condom when sex is casual. When two people agree to be exclusive, you get tested and show results as proof. Then she goes on birth control and there isn't any need for a condom after that. Now if a woman was on birth control and she still insisted on using a condom after becoming exclusive, I wouldn't trust her. In my experience, the only women who make condoms a necessity in the long run, are those that like to have multiple partners. My son was born on birth control pills and no condom - no missed pills, no antibiotics. I was engaged to be married so it wasn't a huge deal. But still, be cAreful. I won't have any sex without screening; I won't have sex without condoms unless I'm in an exclusive steady long term relationship.
strawberryshortstack Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I only use a condom when sex is casual. When two people agree to be exclusive, you get tested and show results as proof. Then she goes on birth control and there isn't any need for a condom after that. Now if a woman was on birth control and she still insisted on using a condom after becoming exclusive, I wouldn't trust her. In my experience, the only women who make condoms a necessity in the long run, are those that like to have multiple partners. Not all women can go on birth control though.
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