VSgirl Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 So I have come on here to talk to you guys about some different dating issues, but I’m sure this one will get a big laugh or something. As I have explained to some of you guys I’m in my late 20’s been in some long term relationships, just haven’t met the right guy yet. Anyhow, I’m a working a new second job right now that kind of caters to younger people or has younger people working there (and by that I mean younger adults). I really like my job..everyone is really friendly and helpful, I work with a lot of different people..I work with a lot more guys than girls, which I think is less drama. Anyway…when I started working there since I work a few different jobs at the place..I met this really cute and nice guy. I know when we first talked and basically worked together he was having kind of a crappy night. He’d spilled some food and I found out later when I worked with him his phone had broken that night..he just wanted to go home. Anyway, he was asked to help me with something since I was new. He couldn’t have been nicer, motioned for me to come with him smiled, and was laughing and having fun with me the whole time. It didn’t seem fake or put on and we weren’t working with customers. At any rate, we are both asked to do a lot of different jobs at our job but our shifts overlap and we wind up interacting even if we are in different roles that night. He’s said hi to me when he’s walking in a different connection carrying food, that kind of thing. He’s followed me into the locker room where I eat sometimes as opposed to the break room and sat with me even though he wasn’t eating anything. He even hit his head on the locker room ceiling (he’s 6’9) wishing me well the rest of my break, which was cute. Anyhow, we wound up cashiering together when I was training to be a cashier, I was working off his drawer..it went really well. We were interacting between customers and all that. At one point I was talking with him and the other cashiers and one of the girls asked how old I was in front of him. I should have thought of something clever but I said my real age and my crush didn’t say anything or seem fazed. The girl said I looked 20 so she was surprised (I’m told all the time I look younger than my age). At any rate, it was brought up by her or someone else how old my crush is. Keep in mind like I said,He is very tall and has facial hair, thus he looks older. Come to find out he looks older and everyone thinks he’s older..but he’s 10 years younger than me. I know this is really silly to ask, but this guy seems very mature (he has a garden for crying out loud), smart, and all around nice. He might be just being friendly or something and I am kind of clueless when it comes to this kind of stuff, but it seems like he flirts with me and is smiling when I’m around. We have caught eyes several times and I’m not trying to sound like a creeper, but we run into each other. For example, he’s running food to people waiting by where the food comes out and I’m on my break waiting for a free milkshake I earned by selling stuff..I was waiting in the same area he’s facing forward grabbing a tray and I’m kind of standing to the side of the wall and I’m quiet..he turns his head and looks right at me for a second and turns back. (no one else is even in my direction or near me) Is this flirting behavior? I know this sounds crazy, but how can I get to know him better? If nothing else it would be fun to hang out with him. I talk to and am friendly to all of my co workers there, actually I’ve been more outgoing than usual..so I don’t know if that’s helping things. I also think I’ve seen him looking when I talk to other guys there, but maybe he just is someone who likes to look around a lot? Anyway, would love anyone’s thoughts on this situation!
CC12 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 but this guy seems very mature (he has a garden for crying out loud) This made me laugh. That's cute. So if you're in your late 20's that means he's still a teenager? Personally, I think that's too big of an age difference to pursue anything romantic with him. Remember how old 28 seemed when you were 18? I just don't think you should get your hopes up too much. But you could easily get to know him more by arranging outings with a group from work, like when a shift ends you could all go out for drinks...er, scratch that since he's probably not old enough. You could all go see a movie or something. If you two connect during these outings, maybe you could eventually exchange phone numbers.
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