benjamin9669 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Okay I'm not sure how to start this but.. me and my ex broke up back in December.. she treated me like **** until yesterday. (Wanted to add me on xbox) because she seen my snapchat story. I was chatting with her friend about 2 weeks ago and my ex found out.. she literally freaked out and wanted to kill her best friend because she was talking to me and liked me. I found out jus yesterday that the girl i kinda liked (her best friend) lied to me and said that my ex accused me of raping and hitting her.. so that's over with. BUT another thing my ex was viewing my profile on a website almost everyday day of the week.. she also had me blocked for 2 months but then added me on snapchat. almost everytime I turned around she was looking at my stories on there. Now yesterday she randomly tried talking to me asking for my gamertag on xbox. I've been distancing myself a lot when I'm talking to her. Then I woke up today to a snapchat from her asking how she looks. and then she's like kik me if you wanna talk. (Relationship ended due to her cheating on me.) Started a new relationship while dating me. So I'm a bit confused as to how she's over me? And why is she all the sudden coming back being so nice to me.. I do still love her a lot too.. it's honestly like she's asking for my attention.
EgoJoe Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Your self respect is attracting attention. She could be regretting things but you need to move past this.
Author benjamin9669 Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 If I was the one looking for attention. Why is she the one thats contacted me both days.
Trep Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 If I was the one looking for attention. Why is she the one thats contacted me both days. He's not saying you were looking for attention. He's saying the fact that you've showed self respect and haven't been contacting her is what's attracting her. I don't see why you would want to get back together with someone who cheated on you, but if that's what you want, your best bet is to keep ignoring her until she is practically begging for a second chance. However, most likely once you start giving her attention, shell get bored and disappear or go back to treating you like **** again.
AIJ Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 (edited) Ignore it, continue on with your life and don't give her the time of day, please Edited April 12, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Strength in Healing Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 She cheated on you. Never forget that. It's done.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I found out jus yesterday that the girl i kinda liked (her best friend) lied to me and said that my ex accused me of raping and hitting her.. DO NOT even think about it, what the hell are you thinking? Something like this isn't even funny, and it won't weaken. She's f'ing crazy if you didn't actually do that, and you need to run far, Unless you actually did do it, then hit yourself with a car. 1
Seeker12 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 DO NOT even think about it, what the hell are you thinking? Something like this isn't even funny, and it won't weaken. She's f'ing crazy if you didn't actually do that, and you need to run far, Unless you actually did do it, then hit yourself with a car. Love the rhymes, and the truth behind them.
d0nnivain Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 Who cares? You need to block her on all social media so she can't friend you or see what you are posting. She's most likely back because she figured out that you & her friend were falling for each other & she doesn't want that to happen. You should steer clear of the friend b/c she's lacking integrity if she'd chase her friend's EX. 1
DrReplyInRhymes Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 Who cares? You need to block her on all social media so she can't friend you or see what you are posting. She's most likely back because she figured out that you & her friend were falling for each other & she doesn't want that to happen. You should steer clear of the friend b/c she's lacking integrity if she'd chase her friend's EX. truthfully told, and I agree 100 percent, I did this once, and it's something I regret, Although I am a guy, and she came after me, I am to blame because I broke that promise...regretfully.
Author benjamin9669 Posted April 12, 2015 Author Posted April 12, 2015 She was the first one to start talking to me. It kinda seems like it's a push pull theory right now. Do I act not so available to each message sent?
ZiggyZoo Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Is this the same one who started seeing someone else while she was still with you, and told her friend that you beat her up and raped her? You keep posting the same questions about her, and you're going to get the same advice. She's no good, why would you want someone like that back? Why is she still able to get in touch with you?
sutsie Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Never take a girl back. No telling what she's been doing the past 3 months. My ex and I are on 1 month of no contact now and she's flaunting her single status all over social media and going to parties and hitting on guys and all that sort. I could never take her back and i'm very happy I'm at the point where I never would. Never ever take them back. Don't even answer her text. If you do just say you don't want her to contact you again.
Simon Phoenix Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 She was the first one to start talking to me. It kinda seems like it's a push pull theory right now. Do I act not so available to each message sent? How about just not responding at all? 1
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