dsprimal Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 (edited) Hey everyone, So long story short. I was hooking up with this girl I used to work with. Pretty sure I took her virginity. She said she wasn't but i'm an older guy and I sorta felt like I could see through it as a front and she only said it to sound maturer (if that makes sense). But anyways, she wanted a real relationship and there was a age gap that we both weren't comfy with going public with. So she was always interested in this other guy we worked with that was around her age so they started dating after me and her decided to call things off. So its been a year since we last spoke. I quit that job and the rest is history. But now with some time gone by, she broke up with that guy a couple months ago and now i'm considering reaching out to see if we can rekindle our past hook ups since she already got her relationship fix. She told before we ended things that she wanted a relationship with me rather than the other guy....but the age would never work out. We recently linked back up on facebook and instagram and she liked a couple of my pics. Also my friend at work told me when I was brought up in a conversation she spoke of me as if she is still interested. My friend even told me "I think you honestly have a good chance at getting with her again if you wanted from how she sounded" So she'll always remember me as her first. should I reach back out or let whatever image she has of me in her head alone by not reconnecting with her? Edited April 6, 2015 by dsprimal
Gary S Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Honestly, when you break up with someone for a long time like that, the feelings are usually gone, even if she does not think so. If you try to go back to her, I'd be prepared to be rejected when she realizes the fire is gone. The odds are against it. You get once chance with a girl.
maxposte Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I don't see why it hurts to try? Sounds like timing wasn't right before and you have a chance to see if it works out this time. What do you have to lose?
Natalie8 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I might read this wrong but you were asking about hooking up with her..i assume thats just sex, not dating. If the last time she wanted a proper relationship then why do you think she would want any less now? Just because she did have a relationship with another guy so you feel she got it out of her system now?
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