j_mysterio Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I'm new... pardon any rules I may accidentally break lol I've never been a member of a forum. Anyways my girlfriend and I broke up about 3-4 weeks ago after a year and a half(I'm 26, shes 24). It started months ago. She was finally fed up with our problems, she left me (I was fed up too but I was committed to stick the bull**** out). She was back and forth, saying she loves me and wants to be with me but is scared to get back with me. Eventually a drunken night led to calling and texting her to express my regret and love. What do ya know? That backfired lol. Last Thursday she called me and I talked to her for about 40 minutes and as we were getting off the phone she broke and said she loves me... I followed suit. She said shed call me back and she did after I got off work... I brought up the relationship and could tell she wasn't interested in that topic by her tone, it was a very short conversation... I started no contact thursday evening. Erika... my ex contacted me Friday while I was at work to tell me that her moms dog died... All I said was "I'm sorry to hear that, she was a good dog". That was the last time we spoke. Today was Easter... our first Holiday apart... I held strong and made it through the day without contacting her, It's 9pm here... I'm home free now. I almost broke earlier and texted her a whole "this is why im ignoring you and know i love you" but i waited a little while before I sent it and realized I'd be a ****ing idiot to send it. I dont know what I'm expecting from this site haha but I figured I'd give it a try...
dyna85 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Well, I commend you for your strength. I like the title of the thread. The holidays are quite difficult.
NC-Thomas Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Keep up the NC bro! You and I both know that yields the best results in time! Good job.
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