kissmybooty Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I recently became friends with a guy who only dates single moms (but doesn't get into serious relationships with them). Nothing against single moms, but what kinda guys only date single moms that too without looking for a serious relationship? I am just curious as to why he specifically only looks for them, most of his fb friends are single moms too.. ??
SunnySide0418 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I recently became friends with a guy who only dates single moms (but doesn't get into serious relationships with them). Nothing against single moms, but what kinda guys only date single moms that too without looking for a serious relationship? I am just curious as to why he specifically only looks for them, most of his fb friends are single moms too.. ?? Does he have kids too?
Author kissmybooty Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 Does he have kids too? Not that I know of? Why? I am mainly curious because he was flirting with me. And I've never met a guy that does this before. I'd rather stay away if it's a red flag.
Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I know plenty of men who only date single mothers. Some of them are not even fathers themselves. Why they do this, I don't really know, but there's nothing wrong with it. We all have our preferences and some people just end up being with the same type over and over, even though they don't deliberately go for that type. 1
Hawaii51 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 From my perspective they're looking for a woman who has baggage so they can have a one-up on the relationship. Why would anyone be jumping in line to take care of someone else's off spring, is the question. 2
Author kissmybooty Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 I agree nothing wrong with that. However I found out about this after knowing him for a week. I am nothing close to a MILF personality, so this took me by Shock. He said he liked me which doesn't make sense after this discovery. I am a nerdy but good looking woman with high expectations. Doesn't mean I am not a freak in the bed, but I am a completely different personality so Its a bit confusing that is it.
Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I agree nothing wrong with that. However I found out about this after knowing him for a week. I am nothing close to a MILF personality, so this took me by Shock. He said he liked me which doesn't make sense after this discovery. I am a nerdy but good looking woman with high expectations. Doesn't mean I am not a freak in the bed, but I am a completely different personality so Its a bit confusing that is it. Are you a single mom?
h0000 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Am I the only one who thinks its obviously because he only wants sex? 2
crosswordfiend Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Perhaps he has found some kind of secret sauce that takes advantage of some unique needs of single moms that make them his ideal victim type from a seduction standpoint. If he's not looking to commit anyways, might as well go for a higher probability of success. 2
Author kissmybooty Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 I am not a mom never have been, let alone single. Lol. Yeah he just seems weird . Uh huh not my style I guess. Onto the next one again! Sigh
Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I am not a mom never have been, let alone single. Lol. Yeah he just seems weird . Uh huh not my style I guess. Onto the next one again! Sigh Okie dokie.
Author kissmybooty Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 It's sad some men have to find vulnerable women to satisfy their desires. Who wants to be with a man like that? If I was them and I was fooled by him I'd be pissed off but instead of crying is kick his balls(easier said) but the point is, good loser alert for me.
Popsicle Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 It's sad some men have to find vulnerable women to satisfy their desires. Who wants to be with a man like that? If I was them and I was fooled by him I'd be pissed off but instead of crying is kick his balls(easier said) but the point is, good loser alert for me. Uh huh. You'll probably be out on a date with him by next weekend!
h0000 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Uh huh. You'll probably be out on a date with him by next weekend! i second it.
Author kissmybooty Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 Not a chance I've had my share of losers. Time for gentlemen only.
Tayla Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Was a single mom for 14 years... of which the gents i dated were varied and intriguing. Can't recall being vulnerable since I paid my way thru life and surely didnt impose any family rules on the mate. My kids were respecting and got to have a positive role model of the male side. It was my choosing to part ways... life has times when its best to do so. So unless you are assuming the single parent is of a rather young age,struggling to make a better life for her children... then yeah i can see the vulnerableness. Some guys admire a lady who can make a life and be responsible for more then saving for a coach bag. Takes a special gent to genuinely care about a lady with vast responsibilities . The pendulum swings both ways.... 2
Author kissmybooty Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 Tayla the only reason I say vulnerable is because he is not interested in having a long term relationship with them and they are still falling for him which makes them vulnerable . I truly respect single moms and anybody doing this to them is a sign of their ****ty personality and mind that I would not like to be a part of. Ofcourse there are guys and people who admire single moms and so do I. But admiring would be having a long term relationship or commiting to them.
Tayla Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 True. Which is why its important when raising as a single mom, she be mindfull of the flight by night characters. you make valid pt! 1
gaius Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Tayla the only reason I say vulnerable is because he is not interested in having a long term relationship with them and they are still falling for him which makes them vulnerable . I truly respect single moms and anybody doing this to them is a sign of their ****ty personality and mind that I would not like to be a part of. Ofcourse there are guys and people who admire single moms and so do I. But admiring would be having a long term relationship or commiting to them. I think you're blowing this way out of proportion. Maybe he was just raised by a single mom, and being one doesn't transform a woman into a vestal virgin. =/ With special rules on how a guy has to handle her. They're adults and if they want to sex a guy without a relationship that's their business, doesn't mean he's taking advantage. Hate when people expect women who are moms to be less sexual, just cause they're a mom.
Author kissmybooty Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 I think you're blowing this way out of proportion. Maybe he was just raised by a single mom, and being one doesn't transform a woman into a vestal virgin. =/ With special rules on how a guy has to handle her. They're adults and if they want to sex a guy without a relationship that's their business, doesn't mean he's taking advantage. Hate when people expect women who are moms to be less sexual, just cause they're a mom. He grew up with both his parents. I think you are missing the point of my post. My only concern is why does he only target single mothers. It could be just like someone else said a MILF fetish, nothing wrong with that like I said. But knowing this, I just can't see myself with this guy.
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