Gary S Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 You should go by primarily by her actions - she says she feels guilty but she still kisses you. If she stops kissing you, then you have a problem. Talk is cheap but actions scream. By the way, I once found a hedgehog on the side of the road, took him to the zoo. We had so much fun I took him to Disneyland the following weekend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ani Posted April 6, 2015 Author Share Posted April 6, 2015 Hey guys, so I asked her why she feels guilty over it and she finally opened up and told me somethign that only her mother and her ex knows. Apparently she wanted to wait till marriage but her ex "talked her into if they had sex he would get back with her." Knowing that she loved him so much she ended up losing his virginity with him, and ended up getting pregnant, and was going to have twins. She ended up having a miscarriage and her ex never showed up to help or be there for her so she finds physical intimacy really hard for her because of what happened with her ex. I don't know what to do but it explained a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Hey guys, so I asked her why she feels guilty over it and she finally opened up and told me somethign that only her mother and her ex knows. Apparently she wanted to wait till marriage but her ex "talked her into if they had sex he would get back with her." Knowing that she loved him so much she ended up losing his virginity with him, and ended up getting pregnant, and was going to have twins. She ended up having a miscarriage and her ex never showed up to help or be there for her so she finds physical intimacy really hard for her because of what happened with her ex. I don't know what to do but it explained a lot. I dated a type like that, and can only wish that I bailed sooner. You don't want to deal with that kind of baggage. You guys have enough issues as it is. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ani Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 I dated a type like that, and can only wish that I bailed sooner. You don't want to deal with that kind of baggage. You guys have enough issues as it is. I feel like I should see where it goes. We have great chemistry and have never argued since we started this whole ordeal. I just feel I should slow down. She says she doesn't mind kissing me when we are having fun and acting like friends but gets the guilty feeling when I'll just grab her and kiss her. Link to post Share on other sites
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Well you know your situation best It sounds like it COULD work out, just lots of roadbumps. Link to post Share on other sites
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