LivingHalfAlive13 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 So my ex of a few months left me cause we disagreed on hanging out with the opposite sex alone. She was for it I said I was uncomfortable with it. It wasn't just a few close friends it was someone new or I never heard of always. Anyways I tried reconciling but she wouldn't have it. I wanted to try cause we were supposedly in love and i care about her. Then today I get my key in the mailbox with a bunch of our old pics ripped with just me in them. Why is she trying to hurt me like this? Like I dumped her or cheated.... Any thoughts? This crumbled me
Author LivingHalfAlive13 Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 You think so? Just sucks cause I tried in the relationship. I really did. And she just wants to hurt, and friends told me she's ripping me on FB I won't look. She was blocked as soon as she dumped me...
carhill Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 What you experienced is always a possibility, forever, no matter what the circumstances or what you do or how you act so go with the flow. Old fart cynical opinion: She's young and met someone else. All the rest is just housekeeping to tidy things up emotionally.
d0nnivain Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 You had different philosophies. Love doesn't overcome incompatibility. It didn't here. Her sending the ripped pictures back was mean & immature. Aren't you glad you aren't dating her now that she's shown her true colors? 2
Chi townD Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Donnivans right, she's showing her true colors. To be honest? She's trying to get a reaction out of you. Some dumper's will do this and demonize the dumpee's to help them feel justified in their decision for ending it. Some dumpers will also do this when they discover that you are NC with them. So, they do and say mean sh*t to try and get you to respond. And if you respond by blasting them, well...at least you're talking to them again. So, don't do it. Don't give in. If you don't respond, then you give them NOTHING! She has no idea where your head is at. And, to be honest, it's none of her business! 1
Author LivingHalfAlive13 Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 I woke up feeling pretty crappy but after reading your 2 posts it took some pain away....She is completely playing games ...Had 2 missed calls at 140am from her sat morning as well..Didn't answer I was sleeping... Again just trying to hurt I guess?
Chi townD Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 I woke up feeling pretty crappy but after reading your 2 posts it took some pain away....She is completely playing games ...Had 2 missed calls at 140am from her sat morning as well..Didn't answer I was sleeping... Again just trying to hurt I guess? 1:40AM phonecall on a Saturday night? Dude, she probably drunk dialed you. She probably doesn't even remember doing it. Write it off. Stay NC.
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