xingyi Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 There is one guy who always plays games with me. I know he never put me as his priority, but I told him off and asked him to fu*k off many times, but he still texts me constantly on and off. Sometimes I ignored his texts, sometimes I replied to them. His goal was to set up a meeting with me, and when the date came he just disappeared. This is so annoying. It is been back and forth like this for more than 5 times. He kept telling me that he missed our sex and he liked me, but if he really did he wouldn't have bailed so many times. What I am thinking is that he keeps me as a backburner or uses me as an ego boost. I know I could just ignored all of his texts, but when I was bored I replied. I am thinking of change a phone number, and I don't really understand this guy. If he didn't like me, just stop texting me, why he still could not just leave me alone? Any ideas about how to deal with this guy?
fitnessfan365 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 but I told him off and asked him to fu*k off many times, ? Haha.. Unless this is a trick question, re-read this sentence over and over to understand why he isn't making you a priority. I mean honestly. How can you complain about a guy blowing you off, when you constantly go off on him and tell him to F off. Makes no sense.
Toodaloo Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Delete, block and ignore. He is not interested in you other than to use you. Walk away, do not respond in any way shape or form. The second you respond he will carry on. Keep ignoring him and he will go away. 3
Author xingyi Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 Haha.. Unless this is a trick question, re-read this sentence over and over to understand why he isn't making you a priority. I mean honestly. How can you complain about a guy blowing you off, when you constantly go off on him and tell him to F off. Makes no sense. I asked him to f off after he kept blowing me off. I did not want to hear from him so that was why
fitnessfan365 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I asked him to f off after he kept blowing me off. I did not want to hear from him so that was why Then why do you care so much about him blowing you off? If you don't want to see him again, you should be happy that nothing is coming of it. 1
katiegrl Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Haha.. Unless this is a trick question, re-read this sentence over and over to understand why he isn't making you a priority. I mean honestly. How can you complain about a guy blowing you off, when you constantly go off on him and tell him to F off. Makes no sense. Oh come on, some guys love that type of drama! Why else would he keep coming back for more? Only to blow her off AGAIN! He loves this back and forth, push/pull high drama crap. OP, don't play that game, it's stupid. Change your phone number so you won't be tempted to respond, and move on. 3
Author xingyi Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 Then why do you care so much about him blowing you off? If you don't want to see him again, you should be happy that nothing is coming of it. No body likes being blown off. I did somewhat want to see him again when I was bored. I just could not forgive myself agreeing to see him again and again since he has blown me off so many times. I also can't believe that there is guy like him.
Author xingyi Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 Oh come on, some guys love that type of drama! Why else would he keep coming back for more? Only to blow her off AGAIN! He loves this back and forth, push/pull high drama crap. OP, don't play that game, it's stupid. Change your phone number so you won't be tempted to respond, and move on. Guess I will have to change my phone number. I believe he will text me again in the future. I can not imagine that there would be a guy like him after being told to leave me alone so many times but still keeps bothering me and playing the game.
Author xingyi Posted April 6, 2015 Author Posted April 6, 2015 Delete, block and ignore. He is not interested in you other than to use you. Walk away, do not respond in any way shape or form. The second you respond he will carry on. Keep ignoring him and he will go away. Yeah I agree with keep ignoring or blocking him. I tried, but he still kept trying. I should have been stronger and ignored him completely. It was my fault too by being responsive to him.
fitnessfan365 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 No body likes being blown off. I did somewhat want to see him again when I was bored. I just could not forgive myself agreeing to see him again and again since he has blown me off so many times. I also can't believe that there is guy like him. So this is a guy that you've gone off on, told to F'k off, and now you're saying that you wouldn't have minded seeing him when you were bored. Did you ever stop to think that your attitude towards him and lack of enthusiasm turned him off?
Gary S Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Change his name in your phone to telemarketer and cut contact. Who knows what is problem is... player? Crazy? Whatever, sane guys don't break dates with women they care about.
katiegrl Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 So this is a guy that you've gone off on, told to F'k off, and now you're saying that you wouldn't have minded seeing him when you were bored. Did you ever stop to think that your attitude towards him and lack of enthusiasm turned him off? ff again if he were turned off, why does he continue to text and call..ad nauseum? Doesn't make sense..can you explain your logic there?
ExpatInItaly Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 You don't need to change your number, OP. Block him. The end. He does this because he wants sex, but nothing more. He is likely doing this with other women too, hence the sudden disappearances. Just like you respond when you're bored, he texts you when he's bored. 1
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