Acceptable and unacceptable to the ladies

[Grogo]

Most acceptable --- being an aggressive and charming alpha male

 

Acceptable to some --- dangerous, abusive hot and cold guys, it blows my mind

 

Unacceptable to most --- nice guys, she will believe being nice is an underhanded ploy for sex, even though that's rarely reality

 

Extremely unacceptable --- virgins or inexperienced guys, she wants guys who are desired by others

 

The alpha males are in such great demand and ladies will believe everything that comes out of their mouths. Most alpha males also have an obsession with destroying nice guys in any way they can marking them as beta males.

[Hawaii51]

Alpha males are too busy slaying alpha- sometimes beta- females that they never consider Beta-males.

[Grogo]

Alpha males are too busy slaying alpha- sometimes beta- females that they never consider Beta-males.

 

Alpha males get whatever they want, but that's not enough for them. Alpha males constantly denigrate anyone who they deem is a beta male.

[Hawaii51]

There's no need to do that if you're an alpha male. A real alpha male would bring the vibrations up of the people around them, not bring them down. An alpha male doesn't have to display it, it just is. They're better looking, stronger, smarter, wittier, more charismatic, worldly. I also to think they have should have a higher morality and patience. The person you're talking about is a beta-male who doesn't know he's a beta or aka; a douchebag.

Edited April 5, 2015 by Hawaii51

[lana-banana]

Most acceptable --- decent men

 

Acceptable to some --- men who are not so decent, immature, lazy, unambitious, unkind

 

Unacceptable to most --- abusive, dangerous, broken human beings

 

Extremely unacceptable --- men who use the terms "alpha" and "beta" and view social interactions like D&D encounters

[Grogo]

There's no need to do that if you're an alpha male. A real alpha male would bring the vibrations up of the people around them, not bring them down. An alpha male doesn't have to display it, it just is. They're better looking, stronger, smarter, wittier, more charismatic, worldly. The person you're talking about is a beta-male who doesn't know he's a beta or aka; a douchebag.

 

No it's an alpha male. These alpha males have the charactistics you listed but put down so called beta males in the harshest of ways. Alphas rarely admit they are wrong and twist conversations.

[Grogo]

Most acceptable --- decent men

 

Acceptable to some --- men who are not so decent, immature, lazy, unambitious, unkind

 

Unacceptable to most --- abusive, dangerous, broken human beings

 

Extremely unacceptable --- men who use the terms "alpha" and "beta" and view social interactions like D&D encounters

 

What a lady refers to as a decent man is actually an alpha male. There's a lot more ladies then you care to admit of all ages and personalities that are attracted to dangerous guys like magnets. Twist the truth all you want but it doesn't change the truth.

[katiegrl]

There's no need to do that if you're an alpha male. A real alpha male would bring the vibrations up of the people around them, not bring them down. An alpha male doesn't have to display it, it just is. They're better looking, stronger, smarter, wittier, more charismatic, worldly. The person you're talking about is a beta-male who doesn't know he's a beta or aka; a douchebag.

 

^^This...minus the better looking part.

 

A man doesn't need to be "better looking" to be a true alpha male. Just confident, strong (emotionally and physically), intelligent (including emotionally intelligent), honest and have integrity!

 

A true alpha male doesn't take crap from people including the women they date!!! He demands respect...without resorting to bullying and lording it over people.

 

An alpha male possesses a quiet strength, doesn't need to go around bragging how *alpha* he is.

 

Did I mention he is CONFIDENT???

[Hawaii51]

But those aren't alpha-males, they're just douchebags that happen to seem higher because they might have a trait or two comparable to an alpha-male.

 

 

So you're saying, that Alphas are stopping you from being charismatic (mix of a bunch of qualities) and being more aggressive (having confidence) with women?

It's unfortunate to read that.

[Hawaii51]

^^This...minus the better looking part.

 

 

I have to include something about being at least average looking. There's an idea called "Lookism" that would back my idea. Wiki it

 

To summarize, it's just that better looking children have more practice at social interactions and it snowballs throughout their lives.

[Hawaii51]

I'll settle to say that you be an alpha-man in your own regard

Read some books, OP, experience some stuff, and you'll have something to go on about and/or check self proclaimed alphas.

[Grogo]

It's unsurprised you all put alpha males on a pedestal and heap praise on them.

[Grogo]

But those aren't alpha-males, they're just douchebags that happen to seem higher because they might have a trait or two comparable to an alpha-male.

 

 

So you're saying, that Alphas are stopping you from being charismatic (mix of a bunch of qualities) and being more aggressive (having confidence) with women?

It's unfortunate to read that.

 

Alpha males don't make it any easier and aren't all they are cracked up to be. I have no use whatsoever for them in any part of my life.

[Hawaii51]

It's unsurprised you all put alpha males on a pedestal and heap praise on them.

 

Well, I think you're missing the point, or idea, of an alpha-male/female. They're naturally higher or on a pedestal. But not out of spite of you or people below them.

 

You just pointed out in another thread that you're " an ugly." You have no self esteem, and unfortunately the is the foundation on which we build the rest of ourselves. until you get a solid self esteem, you're going to be blaming everyone else for everything you don't have. Sorry you're ugly.

[katiegrl]

I have to include something about being at least average looking. There's an idea called "Lookism" that would back my idea. Wiki it

 

To summarize, it's just that better looking children have more practice at social interactions and it snowballs throughout their lives.

 

Being average looking is quite a bit different from being better looking. So I accept that they have to be at least average looking...like you said above.

 

I have known some absolutely drop dead gorgeous guys who are the wimpiest most beta males around. Arghh!!!

 

On the other hand, I know average looking guys (or whom *I* consider average looking) who are 100% alpha all the way... :)

[Grogo]

^^This...minus the better looking part.

 

A man doesn't need to be "better looking" to be a true alpha male. Just confident, strong (emotionally and physically), intelligent (including emotionally intelligent), honest and have integrity!

 

A true alpha male doesn't take crap from people including the women they date!!! He demands respect...without resorting to bullying and lording it over people.

 

An alpha male possesses a quiet strength, doesn't need to go around bragging how *alpha* he is.

 

Did I mention he is CONFIDENT???

Alpha males have integrity in the eyes of the ladies but don't have any more than anyone else. Major correction. Ladies listen to alpha males. Ladies do not listen to what they deem beta males.

[Grogo]

Being average looking is quite a bit different from being better looking. So I accept that they have to be at least average looking...like you said above.

 

I have known some absolutely drop dead gorgeous guys who are the wimpiest most beta males around. Arghh!!!

 

On the other hand, I know average looking guys (or whom *I* consider average looking) who are 100% alpha all the way... :)

 

I'm below average looking so I'm out of the picture anyway.

[Hawaii51]

Alpha males don't make it any easier and aren't all they are cracked up to be. I have no use whatsoever for them in any part of my life.

 

Hilarious! <3

[Gaeta]

Tired of men wanting to be alpha males. There are 5 types of males, alpha, beta, omega, gamma, sigma.

 

Personally I prefer the omega. I got nothing to do with a an alpha male - tarzan hitting his own chest - mostly to impress other men on his prowess.

 

Are you: alpha, beta, omega, gamma or sigma male? (descriptions ITT) | IGN Boards

[katiegrl]

Alpha males don't make it any easier and aren't all they are cracked up to be. I have no use whatsoever for them in any part of my life.

 

Then you haven't met a true alpha male.

 

You've met a "macho" male, whom are very different from a true alpha male...

 

Macho men are to be avoided at all costs!!!

 

Many people don't understand the difference... but there is...very much so!!!

[Grogo]

Well, I think you're missing the point, or idea, of an alpha-male/female. They're naturally higher or on a pedestal. But not out of spite of you or people below them.

 

You just pointed out in another thread that you're " an ugly." You have no self esteem, and unfortunately the is the foundation on which we build the rest of ourselves. until you get a solid self esteem, you're going to be blaming everyone else for everything you don't have. Sorry you're ugly.

 

I guess you haven't been on the receiving end of their words then. It's not fun and it's not pleasant and if I was more aggressive it would have come to blows.

[Hawaii51]

I'm below average looking so I'm out of the picture anyway.

 

With this sort of mentality, your partner will come home smelling like an Alpha-male.

[katiegrl]

I'm below average looking so I'm out of the picture anyway.

 

Looks are subjective darlin....

[Grogo]

Tired of men wanting to be alpha males. There are 5 types of males, alpha, beta, omega, gamma, sigma.

 

Personally I prefer the omega. I got nothing to do with a an alpha male - tarzan hitting his own chest - mostly to impress other men on his prowess.

 

Are you: alpha, beta, omega, gamma or sigma male? (descriptions ITT) | IGN Boards

 

I'm a beta accoring to that and I always will be. Not that I trust your source.

[loveweary11]

I think guys should be broken down to Alpha through Zeta males.

 

We're not one or the other, we're a huge spectrum of in betweens.

 

Alpha is a-hole assertive, Zeta is extremely passive.

 

Ideally, you want to be a Delta or Gamma type guy.