Borderline Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 So I posted the other day about my break up. Long story short, she kept saying there was no passion and she was tired of it and she didn't thibk it would work. I was to move in with her (it was LDR) And she stopped me saying it just wouldn't 'fix'things. She gave up. I gave her a week tried to talk with her, to no avail and at the time we agreed to be friends. She was standing her ground, and began saying things that tore me up a bit and regrettably I said things back to tear her up, and we are now not even friends, deleted me asked me to leave her alone. I tried again in another week to apologize and ask if we could at least be friends because her entire absence was killing me and she said no, but thay she thought nothing bad of me. I sent her a really sweet message of her sharing my fondest memories with her and left it at that which surprisingly, sent her into somewhat of a rage, she said she hated how much she loved me etc and to not contact her again. So I didn't. Ive been trying to wrap my head around moving on, but she is still friends with my entire family on facebook. Like 40-some people. I'm the only one not her friend lol, and because my family is too dense to realize that we broke up (she took down all our pics, and I've been posting heartbreak statuses) they continue to interact with her. In which she continues to respond to. If someone was really over with you, wouldn't they get rid of every part of you? And NOT interact with your family at the very least? On one hand I'd say its just the way she is, she is very sweet and might have the mindset "well, they have always been nice to me and never did anything wrong" and she wouldn't tell them even that we are broken up because we had a always agreed whatever happened between us was no one's business but ours.. But still!!! Thoughts on this?
Ruby65 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Why don't you just explain to your friends and family that you've broken up and ask them to unfriend her? You're allowed to set healthy boundaries after a breakup. As for what it means that she hasn't deleted all these people.... she probably doesn't want to be rude and I'm sure she still enjoys having them all as Facebook friends. Please don't read into this. 1
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