bigfred Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 hello, Happy easter everyone well, I have been in no contact for thirty days and now I just could not hold it in and I sent my ex a text that said "just wanted to wish you a Happy Easter, Hope all is well. Did I screw things up , I cant believe that I did this, but she knows that im a bit religious. She hasn't contacted me back its been over an hour, bitting my nais right now need help thx!!!
BlackbirdSong Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 she gonna just ignore it or will send you a happy easter text back later today. Think nothing of it and just resume NC.
Author bigfred Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 she gonna just ignore it or will send you a happy easter text back later today. Think nothing of it and just resume NC. Did I break the no contact ? I also went to drop of a friend and he lives two blocks away from her and on my home I saw her sister and niece driving onto the main street there is no other way in me going by there without taking that street, im thinking now that they will tell her that I was crusing by her house or something, she knows my friend live by her.
Author bigfred Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 she gonna just ignore it or will send you a happy easter text back later today. Think nothing of it and just resume NC. If she does text me back with a happy easter as well do I text her again? even if she ask how im I doing? or something in that nature
ZiggyZoo Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 This is most definitely breaking NC. The turmoil you're going through right now is the reason to resist the urge to call, text, message, whatever your ex. Now you're going to spend today and likely the next few days, wondering if she's going to contact you. And say she does. That's a whole 'nother canof worms. You're going to dissect the message she sent, agonize over what to send back, wait for a response to THAT message, repeat...and at some point the contact ends and you're right back to square one. Just not worth it. 2
Throldur Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 If she does text me back with a happy easter as well do I text her again? even if she ask how im I doing? or something in that nature No. Never break NC. If you want reconciliation it won't ever come from the dumpee contacting. It can only come from them.
Author bigfred Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 This is most definitely breaking NC. The turmoil you're going through right now is the reason to resist the urge to call, text, message, whatever your ex. Now you're going to spend today and likely the next few days, wondering if she's going to contact you. And say she does. That's a whole 'nother canof worms. You're going to dissect the message she sent, agonize over what to send back, wait for a response to THAT message, repeat...and at some point the contact ends and you're right back to square one. Just not worth it. Your right thx, im cool though felling better 1
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