SupportiveGuy Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I don't really have the energy to go out, travel, do fun activities, etc. I like the more active types of activities, I was a runner in my youth. I want to meet people and do something for them that they will appreciate, but I usually don't have the energy or interest in their hobbies and activities. So, since I've crossed out all of the outside-the-home activities, I've been spending the last few years trying to figure out how to attract people to me instead, to come visit me. I'm thinking maybe I should start a free match making service. People will come to me to talk in the hopes of finding a special someone, and I can help them, and maybe one of them will be interested in me. I tried craigslist, everyone responded telling me they would never risk visiting me. I've tried dating sites. Nobody goes for the tired guy who can't go out much. I even tried reaching out to local church groups and community support systems, but it seems that they only want to throw money at their problems, not actually give friendship or moral support to people in need. I'm not fat and hugely out of shape. Women tell me I have a good sense of humor and they think I'm cute. I exercise regularly, but I only have enough energy to do the exercise and nothing else. I have plenty of experience almost fainting from the energy sapping effects of being in large groups of people. Anxiety pills make me even more drowsy. Weirdly enough, I have had a few interesting experiences with women who were romantically interested in me, and I suddenly experienced a huge boost of energy, which lasted for as long as I was able to be around them. So it seems like a romantic relationship is my only option for a cure, and they have to come to me. In the meantime, I'm going to do some bodybuilding, not much because I don't have much energy or equipment in my apartment room. I'm aiming for some abs and some definition on my arms.
freelo Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 If you want to meet women you have to put yourself in situations where you will find women. Women will not just show up to your door-that I'll guarantee. You'll need to muster up the courage to talk to women, take them out on dates and prove you can be committed to them in order to have an actual romantic relationship. I think you may find a solution in a relationship coach. Just maybe. 1
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