ultimaterob97 Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 ive posted a few posts about me and my ex on here but this time it isnt about getting her back, i dont really want her back as we have both changed and i wont make her happy, even though im not over her yet. my question is why does she hate me so much, like we argued and both said hurtful stuff to each other and i know ive pushed her away but shes using this to make me look like a bad person after all the things i have done for her. and she is also flirting with loads of new boys which annoys me because she said she didnt want a relationship. she wont add me on any social media and literally hates my guts, yet after all the things she said i dont hate hers? ill be a man and admit i said things also but in all fairness to me i was really hurt and its my first love so i didnt know what i was doing. im really upset in a way and just need some advice. thanks
Throldur Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 ive posted a few posts about me and my ex on here but this time it isnt about getting her back, i dont really want her back as we have both changed and i wont make her happy, even though im not over her yet. my question is why does she hate me so much, like we argued and both said hurtful stuff to each other and i know ive pushed her away but shes using this to make me look like a bad person after all the things i have done for her. and she is also flirting with loads of new boys which annoys me because she said she didnt want a relationship. she wont add me on any social media and literally hates my guts, yet after all the things she said i dont hate hers? ill be a man and admit i said things also but in all fairness to me i was really hurt and its my first love so i didnt know what i was doing. im really upset in a way and just need some advice. thanks It's easier to move on from something if you attach negativity to it. 1
Author ultimaterob97 Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 I don't even mind her being negative its just her mates keep starting on me, i dont even care about that but its just the fact if I reply they use it against me to look like a bad person.
Ruby65 Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Don't reply. Make sure there's no contact between you and her or any of her friends. If this is online contact, block them all. If this is in-person contact, avoid places they're likely to be. YOU know you're not a bad person and everyone who matters in your life knows this to be true. Right now that has to be enough.
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