madelinex Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 Hello, I have been talking to a guy but he is 6 years younger than me. We have been speaking to each other for around 5 weeks. We started off as talking and one thing led to another we ended up having sex. At first, we agreed to keep the relationship a secret cause I know his family and I would not want them to find out that I have a sexual relationship with their son. I guess we are more of a fwb type of thing. But the more we talk, I am developing feelings. He said that we should not go on dates with other people and we should be exclusive which i agreed on because of stds. He's always planning dates and asking to see me and sometimes we just hang out without having sex. I guess it is developing more into a relationship but one thing that bothers me is he doesnt text me often. He will text me in the morning saying good morning baby i hope you have a great day, i love you etc but thats it. I told him dont throw around the L words so easily, we barely know each other. He said he wants to get to know me better but I dont understand how that is possible if we barely talk when we are not together. We text here and there but sometimes it takes him 3 hours to reply. I know hes busy with school which i understand but at the same time, I see him on facebook and that irritates me. Am i rushing into things or thinking to deeply? I dont want to waste my time if this is going to be a dead end relationship. sighs
SSM3 Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 Hello, I have been talking to a guy but he is 6 years younger than me. We have been speaking to each other for around 5 weeks. We started off as talking and one thing led to another we ended up having sex. At first, we agreed to keep the relationship a secret cause I know his family and I would not want them to find out that I have a sexual relationship with their son. I guess we are more of a fwb type of thing. But the more we talk, I am developing feelings. He said that we should not go on dates with other people and we should be exclusive which i agreed on because of stds. He's always planning dates and asking to see me and sometimes we just hang out without having sex. I guess it is developing more into a relationship but one thing that bothers me is he doesnt text me often. He will text me in the morning saying good morning baby i hope you have a great day, i love you etc but thats it. I told him dont throw around the L words so easily, we barely know each other. He said he wants to get to know me better but I dont understand how that is possible if we barely talk when we are not together. We text here and there but sometimes it takes him 3 hours to reply. I know hes busy with school which i understand but at the same time, I see him on facebook and that irritates me. Am i rushing into things or thinking to deeply? I dont want to waste my time if this is going to be a dead end relationship. sighs If you like him, have things in common and get on who cares! My sister is about five years older than her bf and they get on fine.
Gaeta Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 Hello, I have been talking to a guy but he is 6 years younger than me. We have been speaking to each other for around 5 weeks. We started off as talking and one thing led to another we ended up having sex. At first, we agreed to keep the relationship a secret cause I know his family and I would not want them to find out that I have a sexual relationship with their son. I guess we are more of a fwb type of thing. But the more we talk, I am developing feelings. He said that we should not go on dates with other people and we should be exclusive which i agreed on because of stds. The age difference has no importance unless he is 14 and you are 20. Why you don't want his family to know you are developing a romantic relationship? aren't you both adult? You should be exclusive because of stds? I hope you don't mean you 2 are having unprotected sex. Being exclusive means in no way you cannot transmit to each other stds. Several stds shows no symptoms and you are unaware you carry it untill you get a full std screening. Before having unprotected sex you both go to a clinic and be tested including hsv 1 & 2, they usually don't test for it cause it's wide spread. Any std test that is more than 3 months old is NIL. You need to go again. He's always planning dates and asking to see me and sometimes we just hang out without having sex. I guess it is developing more into a relationship but one thing that bothers me is he doesnt text me often. He will text me in the morning saying good morning baby i hope you have a great day, i love you etc but thats it. I told him dont throw around the L words so easily, we barely know each other. He said he wants to get to know me better but I dont understand how that is possible if we barely talk when we are not together. We text here and there but sometimes it takes him 3 hours to reply. I know hes busy with school which i understand but at the same time, I see him on facebook and that irritates me. Am i rushing into things or thinking to deeply? I dont want to waste my time if this is going to be a dead end relationship. sighs I think he is telling you he loves you because he thinks it will assure him sex at will. Saying ILY after 6 weeks dating is surely showing you how immature he is still. So, how old are you 2?
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