GTR King Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 why dose it overwhelm you?? why do you want a b.f so badly???
No Limit Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 What is your motivation for getting a BF? A friend of mine also said one day "I want a boyfriend" but in her case it's probably just because of her big sister having lots of dates and she almost none at all.
Erised Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Why? I think this will work against you, too. No one wants to be one of anybody because someone wants someone. I can see hoping you meet a person who is fun and enriches your life, but you certainly shouldn't be too concerned about having a boyfriend until you meet a rare person who makes you want that. You should be comfortable and happy on your own to the point you're not willing to give that up for most. What is it you think a boyfriend will bring into your life exactly?
Author Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 I want love, sex, and companionship.
DoesntGetIt Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I think if you focus on needing to get one, it tends to sabotage things that could turn into relationships. I have a female friend who kept saying how much she wanted a boyfriend, and because of that would move too fast and smother anything that started. I finally had to give her advice after a first date with a new guy on how to slow down and relax, and that one is going good so far. Just enjoy life, make the most of it, have fun with friends, and go on some dates. When you end up with someone compatible it will work itself out. If you put pressure on it, you might kill off something good. 1
Author Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 I think if you focus on needing to get one, it tends to sabotage things that could turn into relationships. I have a female friend who kept saying how much she wanted a boyfriend, and because of that would move too fast and smother anything that started. I finally had to give her advice after a first date with a new guy on how to slow down and relax, and that one is going good so far. Just enjoy life, make the most of it, have fun with friends, and go on some dates. When you end up with someone compatible it will work itself out. If you put pressure on it, you might kill off something good. Okay I'll remeber that thanks. I don't think I'm that bad though.
d0nnivain Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 If you can manage to not be desperate about it, what are you doing to achieve your goal? Wishing & wanting won't make it so. Taking action is required
xxoo Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I want love, sex, and companionship. That's normal. What's getting in your way of finding that? Are you meeting and mingling with eligible single men?
Author Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 That's normal. What's getting in your way of finding that? Are you meeting and mingling with eligible single men? I don't know and no I'm not. I only posted this because I needed to vent.
Brapting Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I will be your boyfriend...you look just like Milla Jovovich! (Jokes) What kind of guy and you looking for? You like guys that are cool and distant? Or open and friendly? Have they got to be in good shape? What kind of interests would you want them to have?
Kamille Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 I want love, sex, and companionship. I read some of your past threads and all I can say is: and you deserve that. Don't ever settle for a relationship that offers less than what you want. Now, you need a plan so that you can meet single men and eventually build an connection with one of them. Any ideas on how you could proceed?
Author Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 I will be your boyfriend...you look just like Milla Jovovich! (Jokes) What kind of guy and you looking for? You like guys that are cool and distant? Or open and friendly? Have they got to be in good shape? What kind of interests would you want them to have? Leeloo Dallas Multipass!
Author Popsicle Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 I read some of your past threads and all I can say is: and you deserve that. Don't ever settle for a relationship that offers less than what you want. Now, you need a plan so that you can meet single men and eventually build an connection with one of them. Any ideas on how you could proceed? Thank you! I don't know yet. I'm one of those people who feels first, then thinks later. I haven't gotten that far. 1
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