Jumping the Gun All the Time

[katiegrl]

I love Shakey's Pizza. Man, I miss their mojo's!

 

Just reassure him. Just be sweet and say "The only date I want is with you". I don't know why people have such a problem reassuring people. It only takes saying a few words at the right time and it's the loving thing to do.

 

I believe she has reassured him....didn't help.

Edited April 6, 2015 by katiegrl

[katiegrl]

I believe she has reassured him....didn't help.

 

It just gets old after awhile.... bless your heart OP for hanging in there with him.

 

I need a strong CONFIDENT secure man....not a whiny insecure baby that needs constant reassurance all the time.

 

That would turn me off REAL fast..

 

To each his own though.

 

Good luck...

[sunshinesunshine]

Well this time around he again jumped the gun thinking this and that and then says he hasn't slept for 2 days, hanging out with his friends for the past Friday through Sunday.

 

And he wants us to hang out tomorrow Tuesday when he hasn't even slept I don't think that's a good idea.

[kendahke]

He sounds like he was being sarcastic or making a joke... but you know him better--was this in line with him jumping the gun on other things?

 

Or are you looking for reasons to drop him off at the mall?

[sunshinesunshine]

I still want to still date him but I dislike him always thinking I am dating other guys when I am clearly not doing such thing.

[Diezel]

Save pictures of your food for Instagram or Facebook.

[fred123]

you are not exclusive so its fair for him to think you are dating other guys and for him to be a bit jealous.

 

biggest mistake a guy could make is thinking she is only dating him. i made that mistake and realised its foolish and can hurt.

[strawberryshortstack]

I still want to still date him but I dislike him always thinking I am dating other guys when I am clearly not doing such thing.

 

Question: If you're not dating other guys, and have no desire to do so, and he's pushing for exclusivity, why not just give him what he wants now, instead of waiting for some arbitrary date? It might go a long way towards making him feel more secure in his relationship with you.

[sunshinesunshine]

Question: If you're not dating other guys, and have no desire to do so, and he's pushing for exclusivity, why not just give him what he wants now, instead of waiting for some arbitrary date? It might go a long way towards making him feel more secure in his relationship with you.

 

Yeah I know maybe I will push it sooner than later haha.

[sunshinesunshine]

Well him and I just experienced our 7th date and will be going out for 3 months next week and I think now I am finally getting around to liking this guy a LOT. While we have been dating I did like him, but wasn't sure about it, until our date last night, which went over well and I am as I said, liking this guy a lot more.

[lana-banana]

How old is he? How old are you? Seven dates in three months is almost nothing; is there a reason you're going so slowly? Do you live with your parents? Does he? I'm sorry for all the questions but this seems like a very strange situation. You sound very young and this guy has a previous six-year relationship and PTSD, ADHD, dyslexia, etc. Something seems off.

[sunshinesunshine]

How old is he? How old are you? Seven dates in three months is almost nothing; is there a reason you're going so slowly? Do you live with your parents? Does he? I'm sorry for all the questions but this seems like a very strange situation. You sound very young and this guy has a previous six-year relationship and PTSD, ADHD, dyslexia, etc. Something seems off.

 

Him and I are both 27 going on 28 this year, we also both live at home with our parents. How does this seem off? It's all true.

[katiegrl]

Him and I are both 27 going on 28 this year, we also both live at home with our parents. How does this seem off? It's all true.

 

It seems off.... not because we don't believe it's true, but because seven dates in three months is unusually slow.

 

Is there a reason for that....are you long distance or something? Also him having so many "disorders" adds another element of strangeness....

 

Not judging.. but both those things combined present a certain challenge to having this work in the long term...

[sunshinesunshine]

It seems off.... not because we don't believe it's true, but because seven dates in three months is unusually slow.

 

Is there a reason for that....are you long distance or something? Also him having so many "disorders" adds another element of strangeness....

 

Not judging.. but both those things combined present a certain challenge to having this work in the long term...

 

Yes we are long distance he lives about a 45 minute drive away from me. Well things have been challenging but we're making it work and things have gotten better over time.

 

Our dates vary from week to week, we could go on a date once a week or 2 dates in 1 week it just depends.

[sunshinesunshine]

That guy and I have been dating/getting to know each other for 3 months and are now a couple!