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this guy has me confused; what would you do in this situation?


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Hey guys, I'm really confused!

 

I reeeally like this guy and I'm virtually positive that he likes me back. (His friends have told me he does, plus he goes out of his way to talk to me all the time... and we have a ton in common.) As of now though, we're only friends. The thing is, he's been hooking up with this other girl. She's not his girlfriend, I guess they're just fooling around. He hasn't mentioned her to me... one of my friends told me.

 

So the other night we went to a party (only ~8 people were there) and we talked/flirted the whole time. He kept touching me "accidentally" and it seemed like he wanted to kiss me at one point, but he didn't. I'm going away for about 2 months and he knows that. Do you think that's why he's holding back? And what is with the hooking up situation?! It's weird, because he's sooo not a player!

 

So what I'm trying to ask is, what should I do? Say "let's just be friends" and move on, or ask him out, or WHAT?! We've exchanged email addresses.

Please help... I really need your advice!! :eek:

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maybe he does really like you, so he doesn't slut you out like these random chics he hooks up with.

 

i dunno, he does not sound like great bf material though.

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I think that you should tell him exactly how you feel, don't wait for him. I always take the initative it usuallyworks out great for me..Guys seem to appreciate it more too..

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