I don't understand my boy-toy's behavior? Can someone explain?

[Bobbi7]

I've been hooking up with this guy for 1 year and a half. The last time that we talked was 2 months ago, the last time that we saw each other was back in January. I'm not sure what I did. I always initiated contact and he always followed through. He never had a problem with me texting him. However, one night I texted him like 9 times, he got upset and said to stop texting soo much. I always would text him alot and he never thought bad about it. I was like wth? I told him sorry. He told me that we weren't over and that he'll contact me when he has the time. I've been reaching out to him for the last 4 weeks. He didn't respond to any of my texts, I called him-it rang twice-went straight to voicemail, even left a message. NOTHING. This is so unlike him! I mean in the past we had our little fights and he always responded back saying why, etc, etc. This time he is just ignoring me. Did he get bored with me? Did I annoy him? He still has has dating profile active-I met him on a dating site and on his facebook there is no indication of a relationship status. Should I let this go? Also, this is the longest we have gone without seeing each other. All the bull crap about him contacting me first we he's available was a lie?

[Lurkeraspect]

Sounds like he's found someone else to hook up with. Time to find another "boy toy".

[Bobbi7]

Well, I asked him if he's hooking up with someone else and he doesn't even respond? Ignoring just sounds childish to me. Heck, if I was done with someone and I would flat out tell them, "I'm screwing someone else, so leave me alone."

[calvincline47]

Well, I asked him if he's hooking up with someone else and he doesn't even respond? Ignoring just sounds childish to me. Heck, if I was done with someone and I would flat out tell them, "I'm screwing someone else, so leave me alone."

 

Sounds like the entire situation is childish.

 

This man is not your boyfriend (he barely qualifies as your FWB, since you haven't even seen him in 2 months). He has no obligation to you at all.

[thefooloftheyear]

Toys will often let you down....Bad batteries, poor construction, boredom, complacency, etc...

 

TFY

[Michelle ma Belle]

Sounds like the entire situation is childish.

 

This man is not your boyfriend (he barely qualifies as your FWB, since you haven't even seen him in 2 months). He has no obligation to you at all.

 

My thoughts exactly.

 

I can only assume this is the same guy you spoke about in another thread you started about the "private text".

 

I'll echo the same sentiments I left on that thread...he's not interested.

 

Time to move on.

[Lion Heart]

I'd say he's found someone else and the "too much texting" night she was with him and you did annoy him.

 

He's keeping you on the backburner "just in case".

 

Get off the stove but don't land in the fire.

 

Be done with dating sites, they're full of cheaters and desperate people maybe the odd "nice" person actually looking for a normal relationship. Not many tho! Lion Hearts stats from brokenhearted friends of both sexes.

 

Follow your dreams. Pursue EVERY single thing that turns you on, interests and hobbies I mean. If you're into gardening, join a gardening group etc etc. There is far more chance of truly having things in common because those people are PHYSICALLY there. Not just lying on a screen.

 

Move on. Block d***wits number. REALLY MOVE ON!

 

Now have some fun

Lion Heart.

[Seraphina87]

My first thoughts are that you should not have had to always be the one to initiate contact.