dragonfire13 Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 eg Birthdays, Christmas, New Years? He dumped me, we've been no contact ever since but I still hear from him around the holidays. I was surprised to hear from him on my birthday, since ive deleted him off social media. Just curious, as the messages are simply "Happy Birthday/New Year etc". We don't chat or catch up and we're not friends. Seems a bit pointless. I said thank you for the birthday message, but haven't responded to anything since then so Im sure he will stop now. His birthday is coming up, but im not going to return the favour.
Simon Phoenix Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 eg Birthdays, Christmas, New Years? He dumped me, we've been no contact ever since but I still hear from him around the holidays. I was surprised to hear from him on my birthday, since ive deleted him off social media. Just curious, as the messages are simply "Happy Birthday/New Year etc". We don't chat or catch up and we're not friends. Seems a bit pointless. I said thank you for the birthday message, but haven't responded to anything since then so Im sure he will stop now. His birthday is coming up, but im not going to return the favour. Because he can. It's pointless to wonder about the motivations of another person. Just a waste of your time. 2
Strength in Healing Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 A lot of times this is to relieve guilt, test the waters (see if you are willing to be a backup), keep you as an option, etc. Forget this guy. If he was worth something to you, he would be something with you. 1
smellysocksuni Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 These people drive me MAD. He has no intentions, he just wants to know that despite him dumping you, you're still there. Ignore him! 2
Price2Play Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 My 34yr old ex gf doesn't understand the concept of no contact ethier. One the many reasons our relationship failed. She straight up lied about not talking to an ex when she was. She just wants to use it so she can check up on me. Nope ain't going to happen. Move along already.
carhill Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 Keeps his name in front of you. The same principle applies in sales. He might want to make a sale again sometime.
xtopher65 Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 No one can make you feel anything. The feeling you have is of your own doing. Once you learn how to only allow positive thoughts and people in to your mind and neglect the negative ones, you will be free....for the most part:)
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