shvrk Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 Ya, he wants to hang out with your vjay! Did he also ask if you want to watch a movie and cuddle? Right... I fell for this one
ExpatInItaly Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 I don't know how to explain it, I heard his voice, and him talking to his friend Jon, because Jon said "I'm calling Anthony" I said "Hi" to Anthony, but then he got all quiet and awkward lol. He didn't say it back, and he got really quiet Jon started laughing and hung up on him lol. I like him from the stories I heard, and I am physically attracted to him. It's definitely a physical attraction because I don't know him personally, but I do like him. I am just not super infatuated, and I have a feeling Jon made it out that way to him. I definitely would need to meet him to have a strong liking because I am basing all of my liking on physical attraction right now, he's really cute, and good looking lol. Yeah, you're probably right! He probably does just want to hook up But what about his best friend saying he lies all the time? Isn't that a bit of red flag to you?
Mrlonelyone Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 I am the member of which Carhill speaks. Hang out =/= hook up the way I mean it and have practiced it in my life. Hanging out is getting to know someone in a non-formal "dating" situation. It is very applicable to situations where you are going to be around someone as part of a broader social group anyway. i.e. at school or at work. It can range from 100% platonic to 100% intimate. At school you are not obligated to spend the majority of your time with someone in particular doing everything from working side by side, eating 2/3 of your meals, and sharing much of life. If you are "hanging out" that way for a long time and being physically intimate to boot it is like dating. It can mean something like being a married couple who work at the same job etc. Or it can mean you just happen to go to the same movie and "hang out" with no intimacy what so ever. That said: I think this guy just means he wants to spend time with you in a pressure free way. No pressure to be "on a date" or to be "dating". In this age, many younger folks, go on one formal "date" and then act engaged or something.
Timshel Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 Ok, Ashley, here's the thing with me and why I take absolutely Zippo of anything you write on LS seriously. Last week, you were talking about a married man that "knew your father" and wanted to "hang out." Now it's some LDR guy that is equally disturbing and "knows your father." I think this is the same guy modified, slowly, because he is married and because the whole situation is Jerry Springer material anyway. I would like to hear about your how hard your studies are at school and whether or not you have chosen the correct major. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's a duck....shoot it.
Author Ashley S Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 Ok, Ashley, here's the thing with me and why I take absolutely Zippo of anything you write on LS seriously. Last week, you were talking about a married man that "knew your father" and wanted to "hang out." Now it's some LDR guy that is equally disturbing and "knows your father." I think this is the same guy modified, slowly, because he is married and because the whole situation is Jerry Springer material anyway. I would like to hear about your how hard your studies are at school and whether or not you have chosen the correct major. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's a duck....shoot it. My dad runs a construction business. I actually asked my dad if Anthony ever worked for him, and he said a couple of times back when I was like 12 years old. He's 30, so he would have been 21. My dad has dozens and dozens of workers that come and go all the time because majority of them are just laborers, therefore, they are not needed all the time, or they go with a different job, or company etc. I don't remember him at all, and I am not making any of this up. There would be no purpose. It's not the married man either, it's a completely different guy. My dad said that Anthony worked for my uncle's plastering company for awhile, and he said he might have mixed up my dad and my uncle because he only worked for my dad a few times when I was 12.
Author Ashley S Posted April 5, 2015 Author Posted April 5, 2015 Ok, well. I went over to my friend's house, and there's this guy I kinda know named Josh and he's Anthony's mutual friend on FB. I asked him if he knew him well, and he said "Oh he's gay! He's really gay! I am not kidding you! He would post videos of making out with guys, and he made out with Corey S. (He's a gay guy that is known in the area or whatever)" I said "Really? He's gay?" I didn't know if Josh was saying it though to be an ******* because sometimes guys will do that girls to deter them form the other guy and shift gears towards them. I wanted to ask other people and see if they said the same thing, and I talked to this one guy who said "I don't know about that, but all I know is that he's an addict, and he'll bleed you dry of money." So that is a red flag, and bad, and then my dad said "Yeah my work crew would always say that he's gay and likes guys." So, I guess he's gay. he's been with women, but I suspect that he is a major con artist, and uses women, and makes them believe that he actually likes women, when he's gay, but since he's an addict, women will fall for the bull**** more than men, so in other words it's easier to manipulate, steal, and lie to women. I am crushed now, I knew there was something up. People are saying the same thing, so obviously it's true. It's kinda upsetting because I liked him, and I was willing to go out with him, but it figures he would be bad news, and gay on top of it Lol.
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