angel.eyes Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 You are one huge laundry bag full of excuses! Women want richer or better-looking men. Please explain all the short, fat, balding, poor men all happily dating or married. "I'm too smart/intellectual" and "I'm just unique and women want the commonplace guy." Tell that to Stephen Hawking, David Nash, Ray Charles or any of the legion of "unique" men with robust romantic lives. I could go on about each of your myriad excuses, but it's pointless. I think deep down you're very comfy being single and are terrified of actually landing in a relationship. Being successful at anything involves effort, assessment, real-time feedback, repeated self-improvement based on that feedback, and reassessment regardless of the specific objective. You refuse to do any of that. Success is a personal choice. So too is wallowing in excuses and self-pity with no intention of making meaningful changes. So continue on. Vent away! But I'm done here.
Vercetti Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 Nice guys, I think I summed them up well the other day. I'm a nice guy, women are stupid cause they don't suck me off. Other guys are jerks cause they just want women to suck them off. Really...what's nice about self deception of desires and harboring resentment for those that go after and get openly what they desire. Arghhh nice guys. Play friend, get information shouldn't be privy to...then basically try to guilt and blackmale sex out of women with their superior friendship understanding and care.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 Yeah I'm done with this, OP PM me when you're ready to stop making excuses for yourself! Lol.
Vercetti Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 Excuses... Lmfao I'm not rich, but am better looking so let's move on to next excuse. To smart, guess move on from this as well. Kidding. Intelligence can work against you. Are you smart enough to figure out Overthinking and creating your own problems. Are you going to show women some logical flow chart of risk reward of why they should be emotionally captivated by you. Don't want unique men. Do I have to move on from this as well. They might not want pure rejects, but talent culture hobbies anything that goes against the grain is alluring. Would you dig a girl that can paint, makes jewelry out of crystals she mined, and has a cute accent from a foreign land. Women want common Joes. Errr, those common Joes are doing something right. Your not supposed to be attracted to men, those men apparently have something women want...maybe the fact they don't role play some Johnny Depp circus clown is enough. Anyhow same men gripe about are the men that leading with example have showen you the exact things can gravate towards for success. If that stupid ugly untalented bloke can score a girl...that should pump you up and motivate you to do exactly the same.
Author ZA Dater Posted April 4, 2015 Author Posted April 4, 2015 You are one huge laundry bag full of excuses! Women want richer or better-looking men. Please explain all the short, fat, balding, poor men all happily dating or married. "I'm too smart/intellectual" and "I'm just unique and women want the commonplace guy." Tell that to Stephen Hawking, David Nash, Ray Charles or any of the legion of "unique" men with robust romantic lives. I could go on about each of your myriad excuses, but it's pointless. I think deep down you're very comfy being single and are terrified of actually landing in a relationship. Being successful at anything involves effort, assessment, real-time feedback, repeated self-improvement based on that feedback, and reassessment regardless of the specific objective. You refuse to do any of that. Success is a personal choice. So too is wallowing in excuses and self-pity with no intention of making meaningful changes. So continue on. Vent away! But I'm done here. Good point but feedback is never provided, people are too spineless to actually give true honest feedback. The biggest problem I have really is not meeting enough people, or when I do finding no common ground at all or battling to get them to talk. All things I am very aware of. I am quite capable of stepping back and looking at things and having been on 30 dates and never been kissed or laid its pretty clear the issue is me, granted of the 30 dates I only really wanted about 3 of them. At the moment I need to try and figure out how to walk away from this one, get her out of my mind and where to go from here. Went out last night but I don't have any real game so it was mostly confined to looking around and leaving. How would any of you react to a friend trying to set you up with people you know he wouldn't even bother with from a physical appearance point of view, could that be seen as patronising? I think the key point with people is to try and find some common ground and a discussion point as soon as possible in the conversation, otherwise you run the risk of sitting there with nothing to say. As for the friend zone, way I look at it, its better than no zone at all. After all this I can say one thing, I am more than happy to compromise, I am not so set in my ways I wouldn't compromise for someone I genuinely liked. Perhaps the key is how to make oneself attractive though I am told again rather patronisingly "he is a fantastic guy, any lady would be lucky to have him". I have got so used to this whole thing bothering me each day.
Vercetti Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 So the problem is don't know how to have a conversation, don't know what want or what to look for, and your willing to compromise yourself even when lacking direction.
Author ZA Dater Posted April 4, 2015 Author Posted April 4, 2015 So the problem is don't know how to have a conversation, don't know what want or what to look for, and your willing to compromise yourself even when lacking direction. I do know exactly what I want...that isn't a problem.
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