Methodical Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Here's the worst part, I asked him some questions about his crush on me. Like why do you have feelings for me Liam? He was very honest and provided a comprehensive range of very kind words and compliments. I took his words to heart and was flirting a bit with Liam. I told him that I love him, but not in that way, he just smiled and said that it's ok. But for some reason, my stupid mind and hormones got the better of me, I took his compliments to heart very seriously and pounced on Liam, giving him a kiss. Liam pulled away and was blushing. I offered him a night of sex that he'll never forget, but he thanked the offer but denied. I was too stupid to take no for an answer. I crawled up to him and tried to unzip his pants. I was going to give him oral because he has been very stressed over the last month, plus I thought that a night of bjs would compensate the support he gave me for two years. He held me down and begged me to stop. I told him that he should let me suck his d***, because it's probably going to be the only time that I'm going to give it to you. He had a few tears in his eyes and tried to walk away. I was following him, he told me to leave him alone. I was very desperate and stupid to redeem myself so I tried to pounce on him one last time. He grabbed my body and carried me to the bedroom where he tucked me to bed. I was still trying to please him, but he just held me down and told me to sleep while stroking my hair. When I woke up, I noticed a glass of water and some Panadol besides me. I walked into the kitchen to see Liam getting ready for work, I tried my best to apologise, he told me that he forgives me and that he'll keep this information away from my daughters. But he asked me to leave him alone while he gets some space. I feel like the stupidest woman on the planet!! How can I be so stupid!! . I don't deserve his friendship . I'm a horrible person . How can I salvage this friendship? How can I apologise? I can't believe that I would do something so cruel and horrible . I have crushed my friend and now I fear that he hates me . Please rant on about how stupid and pathetic I an, because that's the least of my worries. Is there anything that so can do? I really need some advice . What you did was beyond cruel! Liam has been nothing short of honorable, an exceptional friend who took you and your kids in for two years, and never once did he make a move on you because he knew you didn't reciprocate his feelings. Don't use alcohol as a crutch or excuse, especially since you can recall the events in detail. If you can't handle alcohol and your actions, then don't drink. You put him in a vulnerable spot by asking questions about his feelings toward you. He was upfront and divulged a comprehensive detailed account. Your response to his answers, to attempt to pimp yourself out was unconscionable and extremely disrespectful. So much so, that I wouldn't blame Liam if he wanted all ties cut, permanently. Honestly, you don't deserve his friendship. You should have acted like a mature adult, moved out, and maintained a platonic friendship with the understanding that you would always be there for him. You need to pack your belongings and leave. And whatever you do, don't add fuel to the fire by trying to backtrack and make lame excuses. That would only insult his intelligence further. You've apologized and he said he forgives you but needs some space. If you have an ounce of decency, do the one and only thing he has asked for - GIVE HIM SPACE!
jen1447 Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Hm, this OP sounds way out of character from the original OP and writes a bit differently too. If this really happened, then yeah, what Methodical said.
LifeWasted Posted April 13, 2015 Posted April 13, 2015 Actually...I think this could be the best thing she could have done for him. Now he will know she is shallow, cheap and loose. He will accept he was wrong about her this whole time. Maybe this will erase that peerless image of her he's been carrying around in his heart all these long years. She knocked herself off the pedestal he had her on. Good job WildHeart! Now you can move forward knowing you set him free.
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