Nelson_27 Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Hello everyone. Here is my story. I was with this woman (She is 35 and I'm 27) for 1 year and a half, wich of 10 months was LDR, she moved to another country and i stayed to get my degree. We allways had our issues but we went along good overall, we visited each other on vocations, skyped etc... But sometimes I might have overreacted on her, afterall being in an engineering degree without any math knowledge along with a LDR can be pretty hard, but I can honestly say I did my best... I DID, despite my mistakes I've never cheated or abused. But one day she left me (5 months ago), not long before she was visiting our country and without any will on trying to make up things. I did try to get her back, but soon I realised i was wasting my time, and as she contacted me asking how was collage and all i didn't answered just talked about the stuff I had to deliver her, then she apointed one day to meet and deliver those stuff but she delayed 1 day before to the next weekand and we met and she starting to touch my face and said we should keep in touch, and I said that I didn't want to be her friend, she said that's my choice bla bla and i just said have a nice trip and walked away and no contact since then. I accept her decision and tried to move on, work on myself ( exercising, being better student, new cloths, had some dates but never had anything) but i still think of her everydamn day and can't help to spy on her fb ( i removed her from friends) from time to time... And the thing is, she has been posting ALOT of sad love songs wich werent her style at all, even some poetry ( never seen anything like that from her before). Now she's back on our country but she didn't contact. I still have this feeling that she still loves me but i don't want to hang up 2 much on it, and I think those posts are a good sign of it. I'm regaining my self center, but how can i stop think about her? I have improved alot since the BU but there is not a single day i haven't thought about her in these past 5 months.
kenmore Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 The first thing if you want to stop thinking about her is to stop with the Facebook spying. In fact, you should block her so you don't constantly wonder if she's looking at your page. It really just takes time. I do the same thing, I wonder daily what she's feeling and if anything may happen, but every day that it doesn't, is another level of freedom. It's not linear, but in general, that's how it is. Meanwhile, if you found someone else who you like, that would help a whole lot. It's up to you if you feel ready for that, but just some attention from some woman you like can make things so much better! Best of luck to you, it's damned hard! Ken
LifeWasted Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 You canno detach from her if you continue checking up on her. Stop it. Get rid of your FB account.
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